Should married pastors/rabbis/imans, etc put their spouses or their religious calling first?

Should married pastors/rabbis/imans, etc put their spouses or their religious calling first?
Their spouses
Their religious calling
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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27 d
And why?
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27 d
Early results: all female voters say "spouse first"
Should married pastors/rabbis/imans, etc put their spouses or their religious calling first?
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