Why did Charlie Kirk say for young woman and man to get married young yet his wife herself was 31 when she got married?

[Liza1234]

[LazerBean]

I think that most people who are happily married, but married later in life probably wish they would have had more time with their spouse. I mean, I feel that way and I was 19 when I got married. Kirk and his wife just happened to have found each other later in life, that does not reduce his opinion that it's better to get married earlier.

[Liza1234]

Got ya

[RavVid]

A nice reflection. Do you think marrying at 19 was beneficial in forming a strong enduring bond with your husband? As you get older you might not be so willing to compromise and form joint objectives.

Curious.

[LazerBean]

I definitely think it was beneficial for us. But most 19 year olds today aren't responsible enough for marriage, so it's certainly not something I would suggest for everyone.

[Liza1234]

What age you recommend for everyone

[LazerBean]

I think the right age is whatever age someone is responsible and capable enough to take care of another human being. For some that is 18, for some that age never comes around.

[RavVid]

Good answers. I was looking at some stuff on attachment styles. It was suggested that those with a secure attachment style tend to find each other in their 20's and stay bonded. Those with other attachment styles tend to have less enduring relationships.

Not sure what to make of this. I'd rather not think I was buggered from childhood.

[LazerBean]

I do believe that attachment styles and childhood strongly predict relationship success, however I to also believe that it is possible for someone with negative attachment style and upbringing to overcome and correct those things and have a successful relationship.

[RavVid]

You don't think thoughtful people look back and think what they might have done better in life?

Women, tend to have children post 30 after studying and establishing a career. That is quite possibly arse about cause in the 30's eggs run out. Arguably it would be better to have children in the early 20's and to then study and establish a career.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It could've been something they learned because they married at their peak, could just be advice

[Liza1234]

Make sense

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Love has no age; the greatest torment is to find the love of your life at the end of your life. These rebellions and pains that come at the end of the road never end, they cannot unite. May Allah bring true hearts together from the first age until the end, God willing.

[Liza1234]

Better younger than older tho especially if you wanna have kids

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Yes.

[Berethor]

Well maybe he wish that they got married younger, that would make sense I think.

[Anonymous]

Because you love who you love even if it's not what you consider ideal. Besides, he didn't day "marry young, and if you don't, then it's bad and not worth it."

[Anonymous]

Because she didn't find the right one until then. Having a good goal doesn't guarantee someone will be able to achieve it. But it's still a good goal.

[Anonymous]

Because he is a hypocrite like the majority of right wing nutbats

[WhiteThought]

Doesn't really refute his point.