For those of you who are married and have kids who do you think should come first and why?

[beenherebefore]

Children

Wife/Husband

[itsannalee]

Kids, since the kids are already born to the world and still kid. They still the parent’s responsibility. But it would be a different scenario if the kids are adults or haven’t really born.

[Anonymous]

My son comes first, but it would be a mistake for my husband and me not to take care of each other and our relationship too. That's something we consciously work at.

[beenherebefore]

That's the way ❤️

[BonzoInBitburg]

Prioritizing kids over a spouse is why the divorce rate is so high. People should prioritize their spouse first otherwise their spouse will leave.

[beenherebefore]

Absolutely!

[Anonymous]

wow i didn't think the poll results would be like that.

i guess i'm the outlier here and i said spouse. because without a happy relationship with the spouse, the kids will suffer. it's a trickle down effect in literally everything with the family.

what is the exact context/situation of this question, tho?

[beenherebefore]

This is just a poll but somehow it makes sense why divorce rates are so high nowadays.

[Kelly6]

@beenherebefore come first in what? and depends on children age

[beenherebefore]

In your life and relationship.

[Kelly6]

@beenherebefore
my husband, because kids will move on but hubby will stay

[beenherebefore]

Love that!

[Kelly6]

@beenherebefore
even though i love my kids but love husband more

[Kelly6]

@beenherebefore
do you have kids too?

[Jennz6]

Children of course

[jahaims]

Kids then spouse.