A guy told me he believed "basically all" (of the Victoria Secret models) have anger management issues and ego problems. What are your thoughts?

[jennifer_bloom]

I would not agree with this because many of those girls are in dating or married to billionaires and I do not believe they would have achieved that if they were full of anger and hostile energy with men. But I found it curious that he believed you cannot be both very beautiful and also very humble and kind.

It's just like when I used to believe that 99% or 100% of rich men abuse their wives, and later realized some of the religious ones do not abuse their wives.

[beenherebefore]

He made this assumption based on what exactly? Sounds very judgmental to me considering that he probably never been in the same room as a VS model.

[Anonymous]

I don’t believe that personally but that’s just me. Many of the girls who work for places like Victoria secret or even playboy tend to have a lot of bad experiences but they definitely don’t seem aggressive to me. Personally I believe that working in an industry like that can cause a lot of issues physically and emotionally. But it doesn’t mean they have ego issues. But I do believe that they could experience self confidence problems with the fact that sometimes men do create problems in their lives. From sexual assult to abuse. It’s not a good thing at all but that doesn’t automatically make someone aggressive. I wouldn’t say that’s the right choice of words. If anything it could create more confusion and conflict in their own lives with how they have been treated and seen as time goes on it’s a nasty industry that does sexualize women which isn’t inherently good because people will talk crap for the way they dress and could call them many names under the book. But in my opinion it creates more of an issue with confidence and self esteem. Not always aggression while a couple or several could be that doesn’t mean they all are or even will ever be that way.

[purplepoppy]

These women are paid to stand in a bra and get their photo taken, it's not an achievement, any idiot can do that. They simply got lucky nothing more.

I'm sure some are really nice people and I'm sure some are obnoxious little bitches with all the charm and sophistication of a diseased pigs fart. You'll find that holds true of any group of people.

[Xawyx-2]

I heard that too, but I'm not sure why... maybe it's because of the stress (pressure of working in front of the public all the time).

[EchoD]

I definitely don’t agree with that guy. I’m sure some of them have less than desirable personalities because they feel as though the world revolves around their beauty. But like you mentioned people can be attractive and humble people.

[RedInnocent69]

Well, I haven’t met any, but I find that very difficult to believe

[Anonymous]

They are women. Not girls.