Guys would you marry someone with a degree but no savings but willing to save AFTER marriage?

[Tigress1039]

[RavVid]

If I was willing to marry I would be. There isn't much context in the question but to be willing to marry I would need to see she has the feminine virtues.

She could be a broke waitress but still add value to our household in a number of ways.

She could have a useless degree as well as being a broke waitress and do the same.

If she does earn a reasonable income using her degree but lets money slip through her fingers she will likely want to spend my income as well.

In that case I would probably want to see her put her share of household expenditure into a joint account (along with me) and also put an agreed amount of money into a savings account with the rest being for personal expenditure.

It is pretty easy for someone to say they will change to be a saver but for a lot of people it needs to be compulsory savings for them to do it.

[slatyb]

I did. I had enough but then we got lucky and now we have more.

[Anonymous]

100%. I've got a degree and limited savings, and it is extremely common at my age. How could I reject someone in the same situation?

[bowenw]

The size of a person's bank account does not affect what the heart wants.

[dudeinohio]

Sure