Why do some men invest a lot of their money into marriage i’m talking 15,000 pounds or more but still end up cheating on his wife?

[Tigress1039]

[MontBlanc]

A big wedding doesn’t guarantee loyalty.

Spending 15,000+ pounds is often about the event, family expectations, or status , not personal integrity.

Cheating usually comes from character issues like immaturity, poor boundaries, or a need for validation.

A wedding is a one day celebration.
Faithfulness is a daily choice.

[Nikki1989]

Many men are hard-wired to cheat. The money has nothing to do with it. The cheating is going to happen at some point; you just don't know when.

[madhatters4]

they don't plan on cheating while planning their marriage. the marriage is basically a party. an expensive one. so some people just want to have a very big lavish party to celebrate.

the cheating isn't generally connected to the wedding

[Tigress1039]

so the cheating happens later? then why have a kid within less than a year of marriage

[madhatters4]

because he probably wanted to start a family. cheating isn't the most rational act. it's usually an act of passion. that is to say it is rooted in emotion rather than logic. so you spend $15k on a marriage, more money establishing your life, bring a kid into it, all of this is both a big financial and emotional investment.
cheating doesn't make sense after all that investment and yet people do it.

[slatyb]

For some men £15,000 is not a lot of money. I don´t know why they marry but they must believe there are advantages to being married -- maybe to have children?

[Twalli]

Because there's a lot of reasons you might cheat, and most cheaters aren't thinking of ending their marriage for the "other woman"

[jahaims]

Cheating isn't logical. It's how people cope with self hate.

[Emish]

Bence çok para harcayan insanlar aptal :D