I'm 18 and engaged, why do so many people get mad that I choose to be childfree?

[CallMeZero]

Personally I hate pregnancy, pregnant people, children, and anything to do with reproduction. Why are people so obsessed with what I do with my organs. I believe I have tokophobia, but besides that some people think it'll affect them somehow

[Simslover92]

I highly doubt people care that much that you are choosing to be childfree. It's actually a good thing that you are choosing such a path because if you don't feel like you would be a good parent to your children then it's probably for the best.

[loveyouoak]

Those people are ignorant and selfish. They see women only as incubators. Ignore those narrow-minded people.

[CallMeZero]

Ily haha

[madhatters4]

cause people tend to just presume a woman in a relationship and of child bearing age should be thinking about starting a family.

it is your choice and you just have to own it and not be overly concerned with other people's opinions

[Berethor]

Not wanting children is immature and selfish, your parents are likely very disappointed.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/I_Want_Grandkids

[CallMeZero]

How is not wanting children selfish. Maybe you have one instead. WANTING things is selfish. My parents don't care what I do

[Berethor]

Not wanting to contribute to the family's survival is selfish, that is a fact.

[CallMeZero]

No it's not. I'd like to see you try to explain this. My family isn't doing well, wdym by survival? Like I said, if you think strongly of your false opinion then be my guest and have children of your own if you want them so bad

[Berethor]

Survival means making sure that your family don't go extinct, children are the future.

[MrChinaski]

I can assure you, the problem with the world isn't that there are too few people. Do whatever works for you.

[Anonymous]

Nobody cares.

[CallMeZero]

Then don't comment. Your taking up space.

[Anonymous]

You are only 18. Give it time.

[CallMeZero]

Your the type of person who I'm talking about. I hate children.

[slimyWitch]

Maybe it's too early for you

[CallMeZero]

It's never too early to decide on things. I don't want children and I dislike children. Nothing more to it. Children disgust me

[slimyWitch]

Maybe you really right

[Mike_Hum]

You're not engaged. This is fake and gay.

[CallMeZero]

I AM engaged... I am a woman by the way and my fiance is a man. How is that gay?

[Mike_Hum]

this question is gay

[CallMeZero]

Your gay

[Mike_Hum]

Nah, I have children.

[CallMeZero]

Having children hasn't the slightest relevance. I DON'T have children 😊