Questions: Marriage & Weddings

I would only marry a virgin. I’ve had sex with a fair few girls. But experience is great for men, whereas it hurts women.

If she’s slept around, the more she’s had boyfriends, the more she can’t form a bond with her spouse. Sex is more emotional for women.
Men want exclusivity, not think another man’s been inside the women I love.

When I see a guy marry a girl that’s slept around I feel embarrassed for him. Like imagine a guy saying ’I have slept with his wife 🫢’

Call me sexiest whatever, I’m just being honest. Men and women aren’t the same.

These days I know there is a popular sentiment that men should not marry, after all they hear countless stories where courts rule completely in the woman's favor and she can leave at any time for any reason leaving him vulnerable for the entire marriage.

To those of you who no longer wish to marry because of those stories, what would you do in the old system where you are not allowed to divorce unless there is a proven fault in the relationship? A system where is hard to leave for both since its designed to enforce commitment, and where the court would rule against the one who was at fault so it ensures neither casually leaves.

In which system would you marry?