These days I know there is a popular sentiment that men should not marry, after all they hear countless stories where courts rule completely in the woman's favor and she can leave at any time for any reason leaving him vulnerable for the entire marriage.
To those of you who no longer wish to marry because of those stories, what would you do in the old system where you are not allowed to divorce unless there is a proven fault in the relationship? A system where is hard to leave for both since its designed to enforce commitment, and where the court would rule against the one who was at fault so it ensures neither casually leaves.
In which system would you marry?
That does raise the question, what system would both genders be universally fine with?