Polls: Marriage & Weddings

I thought most all girls move out and live with boyfriend? I’ve seen many girsl living with boyfriend and have baby & get married years after. Some get lucky and married at 18 . Some divorced single mom with 4 kids. I’m 25 live alone as it’s my dream have my own tiny apartment. I grew up with parents fighting screaming daily as my dad used drugs. Back then I wasn’t able to run away but now as an adult I can run away.
mom says I need live with her until I’m married I can’t live alone. I visit her every 2 months & she stressed me out yesterday when I saw her. All she did at the market was force me get married now cuz my brothers wife’s 5 sisters all are married & im not. The youngest is 28 & got proposed last week.
im angry cuz a girl cannot know wen she’ll marry it’s a secret. Girls do not give rings to men and kneel down to propose.
I’m sad as I have super religious freak family 😓 my landlord isn’t like that she lives with her daughter & she’s not married has 4 kids &her mom isn’t angry at all cuz she has 4 kids & not married.
my mom would beat me for having my first baby at 26 & not married. She knows where I live so she would demand landlord to see me at my house to beat me 😥& she would faint of misery I have baby & not married.
my bfs younger sister has many kids and not married either & her mom isn’t angry or disowning her at all but they all live together with her boyfriend too. 🙁😓

Curious to see if people's opinions on the traditional way people do life such as marriage and kids is as appealing once you've been through it. I never want to get married and people think it's wrong. I'm all about living in the moment and keeping life fun and free of stress until I die. I do want a serious relationship, if I meet the right person but not marriage. Just curious to see if people are genuinely married and have kids and happy or if life becomes miserable when you are no longer your priority.

I’m the last young child left in family. All my step siblings are older than me and brothers wife’s 4 sisters all are married now. The youngest sister 28 got proposed to this week. I’m not 28 yet but I worry by that age I won’t be married at all. I feel it’s not in my destiny to be married never. I feel like a loser as everyone in family is stuck up now rich perfect life with husband and im loser little girl. That show I feel. I have a boyfriend & live alone in an apartment. But to me she 25 is like a grown women I want be proposed to start living with a guy now fast. I use a horoscope app and they have said since last years it was seen 2023 I’ll be pregnant. So I’ll just have baby not married (yet)? I know many girls marry til after they have baby. I don't know y god want everything backwards for me and he choose only them be happy and he wants me unhappy in life. I feel lonely I’m a black sheep I can’t show off to anyone my beaitful apartment & how happy I am with boyfriend, they only care of their life. To the point I’m ignored and they only talk of their life so I’m distant from all of them forevever. And try live my own life alone with boyfriend. 😞 I did marry when I was young but it was a guy that used me & since he was tall & I was extremely short had baby face, he treated me like I’m a stupid little girl & not an adult women. I’m divorced soon this year, still with same boyfriend. But boyfriend and I are short so he treat me like a women never is judging me. And that guy is now with a. Super tall women like him. So for sure that guy wasn’t for me and boyfriend maybe is for me.

Personally for me I'd prefer to have a small wedding with just close family and friends.

fun answers only ~~~

I just saw a video on TikTok where this woman has a theory that most men tend to marry the person who is the physically closest to them (location). To be more clear, say a man has decided that he is ready to start a family and wants marriage. This man probably works a lot of hours so he does not know a lot of women. So the first decent-looking single woman he meets is the one he will propose to. In theory, it is not because he was in love with her but because he was desperate and settled. Is this true?

I also have noticed this. I feel like as soon as a man makes the decision that he wants marriage, then whichever woman he is exposed to the most and happens to be single (not have kids) will be the one he decides to marry. Men don't like to break their heads as much as women who overthink. However, women do this as well but mostly when they are desperate and have limited time/choices.

If you don’t want to spend much or anything on an engagement ring; are you also fine with her and your kids not taking your last name?

I'm curious as to how many married couples married someone like a childhood friend vs someone they ran into and got romantically involved shortly thereafter.

In other words how long was it before you and your spouse got romantically involved? You can use a measurement of 6 months for the yes or no poll (was it over 6 months since meeting each other before you and your spouse got romantically involved).

One of these exes is happily married and the other one has a questionable reputation. You want to be a graceful lady. Should you agree to have these girls on your big day?