I feel like sometimes I missed the point where I should have been married. I feel like I should have been married by now and on my first or second child at 32.
The best time to get married is when you find someone who you like and love and you both have enough in common to plan for a future together. And you have enough differences that there's spice in your relationship.
There's no absolute age on these factors. For some it happens early, others middle age, others the second or third time around. The only time factor that's important might be if you want to have children. Then you don't want to wait too long past 40 to 45. But other than the having babies factor, there's no particular time
you should or should not.
It's best to have some kinds of salable skills that financially support you. Then you don't NEED to get hooked up with anyone. You're independent. With that in mind, you can take your time to learn about the other party. Discover who they are, what they want and how they operate.
It's more about how and what you can tolerate, your patience and your time.
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I think not younger than 23 years old.
Then, if you don't want kids age doesn't matter.
If you do, then for women it's up to 30 and for men up to 35.
But in reality the best women are taken by 26 and best men by 30 (not necessarily married yet but on their way) so don't neglect it if you want to get married.
Honestly you can get married at any age. There are older couples that do it at 50 . But I will say that the ideal time is when you're young and financially independent. Young because if you plan on having kids and growing together as a couple, it's the best time. And financially independent for obvious reasons.
But I believe relationships don't need money to work out. They only need the desire to make it work and love and support for each other, which is so incredibly rare to find nowadays.
Whenever God decides.
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There is not a single "best age" for marriage that appplies to everyone.
I am getting married next month. I think the best age for me is 69. What other choices do I have?
When to get married depends on the educational plans of you and your partner; possible age difference; whether you want children, how many, etc.; your financial circumstances; religious and cultural considerations. You can't just take someone else's answer and apply it to you.
I think it's relative to a person. I think I married just at around the right age of 29.
However, it wasn't so much my age. It's because I had finally saved up enough to purchase a modest home without a mortgage.
That's actually what prompted me to propose to my wife. I wanted her to move in with me to this house I wanted to buy for us.
It varies from culture and other countries for example
Her in my country (Portugal)= between age 35 to 40.
Arbic country's= they start from age 18 to 30
France= they don't like to mariage or having kids
Spanish= 25 -30
British (uk) 40
North Africa country's= 22 to until they die lol
Russian = man's they don't like to mariage but woman at age 25
Chinese & Japanese ( i never see wedding or samone mariage)
And other countries i don't have any ideas
And for me between 28 to 35 because if i have children i will have energy to themI feel the same way as you I think it's best to be married by 21-25 honestly but it's not too late and you still can. It's not a door that closes you are just doing it later. Plus the average marriage age has rose in the years
Mid 20 to late 20’s possibly early 30’s. My wife and I didn’t get married to each other till I was 30 and she was 29. We had our now 11 year old son and she hit early menopause 😞. So we couldn’t have a daughter to complete the set so to speak. But we’re very proud of our son. ❤️👍🙂
You're twenties are for finding your bridesmaids and groomsmen. It's the best opportunity to create the most important relationship you're ever going to have - the relationship with yourself. Marriage and kids can always wait. Find YOU first!
When you’re ready. I got married a lot later but I remember telling myself I would at 21, then 25. 😆 when 25 rolled around, I said screw that.
I agree with @screenwriter except for one thing. You're really going to have an uphill battle if you wait past 40. Take you time, but realize the longer you wait the more glowing your personality better be if you want to be successful after 40.
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there is no best and right... other than the person decides with their partner, and that, could go very differently from one couple to another
Frankly the later you can possibly leave it the better , there is no prefect age , it doesn't work like that..
any, if both partners are interested. The decision is on people's side not their birth certificates
No such thing. When you are matured, financially stable, emotionally stable, and mentally stable. Y’all two have everything you need, go get married. Every age have its time.
For women, early to mid 20s. For men, never.
After you started your career and are financially stable
18-25 is best age to get married and have kids, physically easy to take care of kids.
past 30 is bad idea but people do that now
34-36, I’m looking now because I’m 34 years old
Ideally, till I hit 30.
26-30 is the best for marriage because they are matured
About forty for a man;thirty-thirty-five for a woman.
It's not necessary to marry if you just want kids... lol.
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