He sounds like a typical guy who doesn't place much value on birthdays or other times that a girl considers special or romantic. If you really did let him know clearly that you wanted to see him on his birthday, it is a bummer that he did not call you after dinner but I wouldn't be too worried about it at this point. I would try to find a way to let him know you were disappointed but be careful not to get too emotional about it or you will just end up with a resentful boyfriend.
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It all depends on how serious the relationship is, how long youve been dating, and how old you are. To him and his family, his birthday might be a family affair and they would rather him not go out. And he might just want to see friends he hadnt seen for a while. If he was a jerk about not seeing you then I would be upset, but otherwise I think its okay. I don't really care much about my birthday, so when girls try to make it a big deal I sort of run the other way
Nope not wrong, you wanted to be with him on his bday, because its a special day etc but he might not feel the same, I don't like the drama etc nothing fun about geting older...everyone is different, if you wanted to spend time with him on his bday you need to let him know but I can see how being left out of his life would hurt you... maybe not the best thing he could have done he has his reasons speak to him about it he might explain it or might not...
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