Guys, does it hurt if your ex girlfriend did not wish you happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

my ex boyfriend of 2 years dumped me 6 months ago and he has recently found a new girlfriend and so I don't know if I should wish him happy birthday or just let it go? will that hurt him if I don't wish him? how do you guys feel if your ex did not wish you on your birthday even when you are dating a new girl? do you still care for your ex ? or you just don't want to hear from them at all either be it your birthday or some special occasion?

[awaken03]

To be honest knowing your EX is with someone now he will definitely not be bothered by it whether you gave the greeting or not..your an EX a past relation and nothing more to him now..if you broke things off with the guy and the friendship still remains out of respect then I guess this would be ok..i for a fact know the birthdays of all the girls I was once with and even if it was their day I did not bother saying happy birthday..one girl even has the same date as mine and we haven't spoken for almost 6 to 7 years since college but she never passes up the chance to greet me or message me for the birthday greeting even on FB before I didn't bother replying but I guess I have to be cordial with her out of the former bond and friendship we had..the is also this female friend I have been seeing and she celebrates her birthday after mine..even if I wish not to greet her I will never forget about theirs I just say a silent prayer to myself wishing them well

[Asker]

i know he is with someone else he started seeing her a month ago...and we were in no contact for 4 months after the break up...he broke up with me dumped me..spread rumors bout me...i know he was a jerk I was madd at him I even called him he didn't pick up then later after a day he kept calling and emailing me to find out why I called him I never replied because I was mad...and now I think this girl is like a rebound...idk I still have feelings for him...i don't know what to do...

[awaken03]

forget that person and focus on yourself there are better things and someone deserves you more

[arashmenalagha]

oh I didn't even think about something like this lol!

[JohnnyBlaze]

No, it wouldn't hurt me in the least. If an ex wishes me happy birthday, I'd be happy, but I wouldn't lose any sleep if she didn't.

[Voltaire]

I barely remember my birthday, I don't expect anyone else to.