Girl who likes me didn't wish me happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

It was my birthday last week on fb, a girl whos friends told me she likes me ,shedidnt send me a birthday message and all her friends did ,and she was on Facebook and was offline on chat

[DishLady]

I know she has a FB account, but is she shy -- or NEW to FB?

If (from reading her FB entries and getting to know her in general) you know that she is not either, then she is probably just not in that "place" where she feels it's time to wish each other happy b-day, write cute cards, etc. to each other. Some girls are not into that at the start of a relationship because they're told guys are not into it.

Think of it as a little glitch and move past it -- don't over think it. By itself it's not a positive or negative sign.

[Asker]

well when I was with her I think she is very shy with people she likes but very outgoing with people in general

[DishLady]

So then that's your answer. :-)

With a shy person, just give them a little extra time. If you REALLY need your b-day acknowledged by her, tell her a funny story about something you did that day and slip in a phrase like "Yeah, my friends knew I wanted to do that on my birthday." She'll probably look over (blush) and ask you when your birthday was. Don't question the smoke screen. She's trying to be nice, lol.

[landingsight]

It could be that it's just not her thing to do that. It could also be that she doesn't actually have feelings for you but her friends are teasing her about you, so she didn't want to give you or them the wrong impression by interacting with you on Facebook.

[Asker]

nope its def not that for sure

[DishLady]

That's very complicated, lol!

[ilyurbella]

Maybe she just doesn't celebrate birthdays because they are against her religion or maybe she just didn't think it was a big deal.

[Asker]

nope its def not that for sure

[DishLady]

That's also true -- if she's a Jehova's Witness, she wouldn't celebrate birthdays...

[huntusa]

Dude don't think too much into it.Do you want to loose her over some B'Day wish? Give her some time and be a bigger man and wish her on her birthday even though she doesn't wish you.Keep moving forward with your life like it didn't bother you if she didn't wish you happy birthday.

Give her time and thing will fall in place for you.

[awesomelycrazy]

some people that I know, are always willing to chat/comment etc but will never once look at their 'birthdays' list! :D

[hellothere]

You are overthinking things