Why does my boyfriend says I am "cute" instead of hot or beautiful?

[Anonymous]

other guys find me hot and stunning even chase me down on the street to say hi or give me their card.

he will only say hot once or twice, like when he is out of town and he says he is worried and said he always worry when he is away cause he thinks someone is gonna steal me because I am hot.

of course he was drunk but he honestly say stuff like your cute. he never calls me beautiful and sometimes I think he is just settling cause I am the only cute girl that has old fashion qualities and will love unconditionally

I am normally confident but I feel insecure when my boyfriend just think I am cute and everyone else says stunning :(

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+1 y

Wow thanks guys, I really did not know this.

[goldgunsgirls]

That's a good thing.

Heres how it goes for me and probably many other guys:

Beautiful = what I would call my girlfriend once in a while if she looked particularly radiant a certain day :P

Gorgeous = same as "beautiful"

Stunning = same as "beautiful" and "gorgeous"

Pretty = very attractive, except in a more innocent, girly, "I'd like to date her" way

Hot = very attractive, except in a more "I'd like to do her" way

Sexy = same as "hot"

Cute = two parts. Looks: extremely pretty. Personality: that awesome sort of behavior that just makes you want to hug the person. If a girl looks cute, it means she looks like the type of girl who would have a nice cute personality along with being pretty. Cute girls can be hot if they want to, because they have the looks. They just also have that dateability factor.

Overall, cute is the best. I don't want a hot girl to date, cause if she's just hot, that'd mean her personality wasn't the main reason I was with her. If she's cute, she's all I need :P

[goldgunsgirls]

@Update: Haha, glad you know now.

[JohnnyTheBoy]

When I say a girl is cute, to me that means that she is not just hot but also cuddly and warm.

i think cute is better than hot but that's just me (and maybe you're boyfriend too).

[suki248]

probably because he sees you in a deeper, less shallow way than those other men. I'd take it as a good sign.

[goldgunsgirls]

Agreed.

[Just2DangNice]

You've got it all wrong. the fact he is saying cute instead of something overbearing is much better.

because he isn't everybody else, he's your guy

[JohnnyTheBoy]

well put1

[Konnour]

You got a strawberry ice-cream but you want cherry ice-cream instead! That's such a huge problem...

[Just2DangNice]

Well not I feel like an idiot. I thought "I didn't see anything about ice cream in the question...wait"