Why does my boyfriend call me cute but not sexy or fine?

[michellems89]

my boyfriend says I'm cute but he never calls me sexy or fine why? what does it mean?

[MrOracle]

Cute means "pretty, but with a bit of youth or innocence thrown in." If he's calling you cute, then, yes, he's attracted to you and thinks you are pretty, but he also kind of sees you as he did in the beginning: young and pure and innocent. That's a good thing, and it's great that he still feels that way about you. Would you rather him think you were old and used up?

He's trying to compliment you by calling you cute, but you're trying to find the "bad" in the compliment instead of accepting the good. That will only lead you down a path to misery.

[uhaveatextmessage]

Well, from the looks of it, you're definitely all three. I would imagine he doesn't do it because many women find it offensive to be called sexy and fine. Even if you don't find it offensive, he may not know you don't. Why don't you just let him know it's OK to call you sexy and fine? Just say it the next time he says "cute", just be like "hey, babe, you know you can call me sexy, right?". See if he starts doing it and if he doesn't, then you have something more to talk about, relationship wise

[manzoroxy123]

You have a cute innocent baby face like i do my boyfriend says i am cute and innocent that is the first thing that attracted him he was lokking for someone like me to soon be called his wife

[ChicaDelMar]

Guy I dated always called me cute because I'd always say things like, 'Just trying to look cute' if he'd ask what I was doing when I was getting ready to go out with him.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy.

It can have different meanings or it can just be variations on the same thing. Some guys may say they like "cute" a lot more than "sexy" but it can mean much the same to them as well. Like I can look at your picture and say "wow you're so cute!" which you are, but at the same time the longer you look that cute is actually sexy as well because it makes you desirable.

[TheFuture]

Don't think too much into it. I don't call a girl I'm seeing sexy until after I've slept with her so I know I mean it. It sounds superficial but whatever.

[michellems89]

we have 2 kids together

[lericah]

He may feel dirty or rude for calling you fine or sexy as though there's "piece of ass" or "slut of a bitch" implicitly attached to it.

[michellems89]

we have been together for 2 years & have 2 kids

[lericah]

ok

[baliguy11]

relax. stop the over analysis. he thinks you are cute. go with it. what is he supposed to go down a list to soothe you ego. you like the guy? just chill out.

[amaron]

sex and fine usually go along with sex and lust cute usually go with deeper feelings.

[Anonymous]

For a woman your age, cute is sexy. Relax.

Guys think like 'aww, she's so little and cute. I want to maul her'.

Yeah. Men are special.

[michellems89]

he's 28

[Opinion Owner]

Don't worry.

He finds it hot. For girls, once you're passed, I don't know, 15, cute = hot.

[raptor]

Does it really matter? You should never judge a man by his adjectives.

[usna2015]

because he's a good guy... if you want a guy saying "damn you sexy momma let me tap that" then break up with him and go find a guy downtown in a dark alley

[ice_cold-killah]

maybe your not sexy to him duh?

[snowboarder720]

soooo try asking him to