some American man have some illusions about foreign woman they think that just because they are foreign that they are stupid and that they do not know what they want. they think that just because a woman is not from the same country as them they think that they are promiscuous for some reason. I think that these men that like for woman have a lot of ignorant assumptions about them from watching television. some men who are unattractive think that as long as they have a lot of money that only a foreign girl will have them because they assume that a foreign girl does not care about looks but obviously that is not true. to some and foreign equals sex and being submissive. but what does man do not realize is that any woman can be submissive without being promiscuous
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Lots of reasons.
I think it's less about the lingual ability and more about the values the women have. For example, a lot of western men marry Asian women who barely speak English, because those Asian women still live up to the traditional values and roles of men and women in the family and society. She cooks and cleans the house for him, serves him without complaining, whereas western women will demand the men help around the house.
Which guys are you referring to? He probably get married to her for some reasons.Maybe he isn't accepted among his community? Who knows.There will always be another options when you are the left out of your people.
This happens to me. Outside the US the women are all over me. I wondered why and later found out. At the words "hello" I had women cooing. There defenses against pickup lines were written in their native language and not English, so all I said bypassed the ego which normally guards the person.
If her ego was written in Spanish she is more open and friendlier in a different language.
I became engaged with a woman who I could not share a language with, there is another form of communication that can exist such as spiritual.
For sex and those women to be subservient to them. I really question how you could call a couple like that 'in love'
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I disagree with the best answer. I think that's just what judgmental people assume without knowing anything about them. Sure it may be the case sometimes, but there is something really fun about foreign girls. It's kind of hard to explain unless you've experienced it, but it's like you're showing them a whole new world, and when you explain how something is, it's like an your own experience that the two of you are having together. I don't know if that makes sense but my point is there's definitely more to it than it just being a fetish, and you shouldn't just assume things about a couple that you know nothing about.
Haha, funny thing is I find that attractive in men too!
One friend told me I like men who can't speak English.. and I laughed... and realized most guys I was interested in had English as their second language... haha... I cannot explain what is so appealing about it, plus it's cute! in my opinion.To be honest they can be pretty cute when they're trying. They can get better. Maybe guys prefer foreign women aesthetically the language comes as part of the package. Plus as some have previously mentioned some accents can be exceptionally mesmerising.
I think it's wrong to call it a blanket fetish, if a guy goes with the intention of finding what was stated above then you may have a point.
For me the initial attraction is appearance.There are many reasons:
1. Girl that doesn't talk becomes intriguing and mysterious. He has to find out more about her every day.
2. Her vulnerable position is catnip for the kind of guy that like to have the role of hero and macho man which is 80% of the men alive.
3. She will not be nagging and chatty... two qualities that drive men bat shit crazy.
4. A few guys like having a woman who is completely submissive and without any advantages.I prefer foreign women because I'm a foreigner. Plus, while there are a lot of incredible American women, it's easier to find a woman that shares my values outside of the U.S, at least from my personal experience. Also, I think accents are insanely sexy haha (well some accents).
i'm not native English speaker,i'm a guy who can't speak English very well,.i'm turkish and I find native English speaker females attractive.i'm calling to girls who native English speakers,don't bother for these guys and tend to foreign boys like me as a retribution :))
I think most of the time those girls speak decent English. Plus as they get to know each other she would get better at speaking. Most of communication isn't done with your words anyway.
I have never met someone of the opposite sex who spoke a different language. With that being said, I couldn't see myself having strong feelings for someone who couldn't communicate with.
Wasn't attraction, love, affection etc available much before languages or speech? ;) - Do I make my point young lady?
Those men are unsuccessful in dating women in their home country.
Men that are successful dating hot blonde's aren't ordering Vietnam brides.
If you mean "poor" English, it's the accent.I don't know how I could date someone when we can't communicate with each other..
Foreing women are attractive ;)
They are cute usually
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