Acting Cold as a Solution...

[zombiebabe]

Most of us might have met someone who acts cold and distant....but have you ever asked yourself WHY they act this way?

1.The past brought pain to them

yea the situation where you trusted someone so much in the past and the sad result is.....you got badly judged.! Now all you wanna do is act cold and not open up to people or let people know about your personal life because you're scared that you will be badly seen by your surrounding.

2. Having the feelings that no one understand you....

You feel alone and misunderstood by your surrounding and you end up being distant and cold.

3. Just a protective measure

Some people prefer to cut contact from others to protect themselves....that's it

#JustBeingCold

GAGers how cold do you act?

[OrangeBoy]

I think we can divide them:
- The ones that are genetically cold
- The ones that got a harsh education since child
- The ones with personality disorders
- The ones that got hurted and avoid people
- The ones that got hurted, got some depression, lose social habilities and don't know they are seen as cold.

I think i had my cold moment, but was never intended.

[zombiebabe]

it makes sense
i agree

[OrangeBoy]

Do you identify with one in particular?

[zombiebabe]

i guess more of the 4th one and slightly the 3rd one :(

[OrangeBoy]

Oh :(
*hugs you
I think you can change again.

[zombiebabe]

i hope so

[LittleSally]

Sometimes... especially at work because a lot of people seem to take work less seriously than I feel comfortable with - that's not a place to flirt... but work...

[Anonymous]

I don't act cold most of the time

[zombiebabe]

i often do

[legalboxers]

walking dead?

[zombiebabe]

nope sir