God i hope the woman i love doesn't feel that way about me. I would just die inside
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There is no easy way. This has happened to me more than once. I respected the rejection, but I needed distance. The friendship never recovered after that because I just couldn't ignore my feelings... so, I just wished them the best and kept moving...
Frankly, I'd end the friendship with you. No way I'd be your orbiter and emotional tampon. I think you may have fucked up here. Sometimes what is best for us is in plain sight. I say give him a chance. And don't talk about your boyfriend, if it doesn't work, then so be it. I promise any guy with any modicum of a backbone will say "No fucking thank you", to the friend zone. It's a fuckiing insult ! I'd have left you very far behind.
My very first thought or question upon this topic & situation that you were facing was,"Let me guess,.. he's not your type,... right?"
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I was the guy in this situation once. We knew each other for 8 years when I did it. Long story short the friendship came to an end.
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At first I thought this another friend zone bs. But you have known this guy for 13 years. Maybe he grew in feelings for you over time. Doesn’t sound like he started this way.
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Usually friendship tbat someone developes feelings dont last sadly. Becaues it hurts the friend that likes the other seeing them with men or women
God i hope the woman i love doesn't feel that way about me. I would just die inside
There is no easy way. This has happened to me more than once. I respected the rejection, but I needed distance. The friendship never recovered after that because I just couldn't ignore my feelings... so, I just wished them the best and kept moving...
AngelicSin-Roll the dice. If you don't, the friendship is over. I give you an ultimatum, date me or good bye, You can't have not seen this coming.
Frankly, I'd end the friendship with you. No way I'd be your orbiter and emotional tampon. I think you may have fucked up here. Sometimes what is best for us is in plain sight. I say give him a chance. And don't talk about your boyfriend, if it doesn't work, then so be it. I promise any guy with any modicum of a backbone will say "No fucking thank you", to the friend zone. It's a fuckiing insult ! I'd have left you very far behind.
My very first thought or question upon this topic & situation that you were facing was,"Let me guess,.. he's not your type,... right?"
I was the guy in this situation once. We knew each other for 8 years when I did it. Long story short the friendship came to an end.
At first I thought this another friend zone bs. But you have known this guy for 13 years. Maybe he grew in feelings for you over time. Doesn’t sound like he started this way.
what an excellent take! Kudos to you! You are a decent and proper human being !
My bff was the same on me
We finished our friendship😊
Not leading them on is so important <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
I usually wait to see if it's for real,
and I'm not dreaming
All you need to do is tell him you only like him as a friend
Listen to what you feel - this is the main indicator of what will make you happy
Good luck to everybody who has to deal with this.
5. Give him a blowjob to show there's no bad feelings.
Well put together. Sound advice
I would give it a shot
True. But hard to follow.
RIP the badage off!!!
Cool beans