#NEWCHALLENGE 10 Flaws and All

[DizzyDesii]

We’ve made so many posts about the good in us... but now its time to reveal some of the bad. So I challenge you to share 10 of your flaws as well. Readers, also feel free to say if our flaws are considered dealbreakers #FeelFreeToList #FlawsAndAllChallenge

1. I reflect on the past a bit much. I try not to, but i definitely compare present situations to what and who I’ve dealt with in the past.

2. I daydream more than I should about my future. I’m not really into the now, the present. And i honestly hate to go with the flow (although willing)...

3. I’m never too busy... at least not for whoever im dating... I’m not that good of a friend/fam member and will probably brush aside our conversations/hangouts... however I tend to drop everything for a crush/partner

4. I’m pretty set in my ways. I love routine, hate change and will only do so if it benefits me/us in the long run

5. I’m indecisive but only when it comes to what i want to do in terms of a relationship? Do i want to start one, should i stay in it, will i want to leave?What guy should i choose out of this and that?

6. I’m an extremely hard worker but will place work beneath love and family IMMEDIATELY if it calls for it.

7. I talk A LOT. I love when someone is a good listener but i also need them to acknowledge that theyre there and listening. I need them to be able to hold a conversation and provide feedback back.

8.I fall in love easily but I dont fully commit unless we’ve made it official. I have a bad habit of getting into love triangles because i usually like more than one guy at a time. But if i choose ONE and he chooses me in return, then I’m very committed and loyal. I dont believe in cheating and rather breakup than doing so

9. Im not into animals and outdoors. This makes it a bit rare to find lovers and friends in the same position. Usually when i go to peoples homes, they’re nice enough to put their pets away while im around but i know it irks them. I dont hate animals. Im just afraid of them. As for outdoors, it consists of bugs/animals and wind/rain that ruins your hair 😂

10. Im not really update with this new technology and stuff. I still prefer watching tv over netflix. Im not really into selfies and i dont do social media aside from rabbit. I only Skype if its someone im interested in longterm/romantically and trust to the fullest.

Thanks for reading.

[trxxb]

Think I got carried away - apologies.
In summary:

Lack drive
Little sympathy
Superiority
Lack of empathy
Under appreciative
Lazy
Manipulative
Moderately subversive
Skeptical of authority if it seems undeserved
Tendency to be fairly impatient

I had a fairly privileged upbringing which meant that I rarely suffered from things a lot of people do, especially external factors such as poverty, homelessness, family breakup, violence etc. Although I was pushed it wasn't to the extent that I guess I needed to develop a drive or a hunger for success (at least how that is generally considered by Western society).

I consider myself to be more intelligent/ able than most people I come across and I don't feel as much as other humans so can struggle to truly care for others' problems. Such problems fascinate me on a problem solving level though. To me most problems to be either easy to solve or easily avoidable. Nothing much matters to me, get caught up in very few emotions.

I have been given pretty much as many opportunities as you can be in the world and I have not taken advantage of the majority of despite some success in those I tried. Could phrase this as give up easily but it's more boredom/lack of focus

Combined with moderate charm and some natural gifts it's meant I can be fairly lazy. I noticed when I was quite young that it's so much more beneficial (in a time/effort sense) to build and utilise relationships to get through life's tougher challenges than it is to actually work hard. In adulthood I generally agree with the adage that effort trumps attainment.

I share your opinion with regards to animals to be honest. The big ones can kill me and it's not like we actually have much control over them.

I'm also not lonely so don't want them for company, I'm not a farmer or need them for any profession so yeah, not really fussed about animals. Must are just toys that are alive but people don't like hearing it. Humans steal several week old animals from their mothers, and brothers and may not have met the fathers - then they're kept in human houses without any of their kind. Don't understand the lack of problem people have with the whole pet system.

However I'd like an alpaca or a giraffe, and if wealthy enough later in life perhaps some peacocks and flamingos.

Just wary of them I'll let them do what they want and I hope they let me do what I want though I do have the opinion that we are at the top of the food chain and realistically although it might not be what people want whatever we decide we do is humans is going to impact the animals but we think it's nice enough

Recently I was speaking to people and I asked how many dog lives is a human life worth... Just realised I can ask that here so I shall.

No drive

Little sympathy

Superiority

Lack of empathy

Under appreciative

Lazy

Manipulative

Perhaps you could add subversive

Skeptical of authority if it seems undeserved

Tendency to be fairly impatient

[DizzyDesii]

Whoa u were posed to make a mytake about it lol. Copy this into a mytake haha

[SirRexington]

1: I am mentally disabled and can't work traditional jobs.
2: I am a very very impatient and angry person, confrontational and hostile.
3: I'm very opinionated and I'm not very open-minded to people who say things I believe or know to be stupid.
4: I'm not good at picking up on certain jokes and I have a tendency to be too serious. Though I do love comedy.
5: I'm a very pessimistic person according to others. Though I see myself as a realist.
6: I'm a rather picky eater though not as i was before.
7: I'm easily stressed.
8: I'm a slow learner all in all. Not at everything though.
9: I'm sensitive to touch and other senses such as smell, sounds and lights.
10: I can't drive.

[DizzyDesii]

1. Oh wow never knew
2. Aww why
6. So am i lol

I thought youd make a mytake but thanks for listing it

[SirRexington]

Yeah I have several disabilities, the major ones being autism (higher functioning), mood and anxiety disorder as well as depression.

I've always been impatient but my hostility comes from my abuse growing up and having to learn to fend for myself as well as defend myself against people who wished me harm.

I hate doing MyTakes.

[melanieeeB]

I'm in no way perfect! But I don't see my flaws as something much negative so for me they're not a problem, just something I might work on
Example 1. I have problems being on time, but again I work on that one
2. I struggle sometimes to explain things the way I mean it, languages (and grammar) aren't the easiest for me. I learned 4 and speak 3 of them, but I work on it
3. I'm mostly a really calm person, but I get annoyed and mad pretty easily and I catch an attitude fast
One zodiac thing once said I'm 80% water and 20% fire haha
4. I realized that I'm low key and slowly becoming arrogant or cocky but I honestly don't mind that one
5. I procrastinate and do things on the last run
6. In some situations I don't say enough, just cause I'm too uninterested to invest so much energy into something that won't matter the next day
7. Not that interested in politics
8. It's hard for me to do things if someone orders me to do it, mostly I won't do it
9. I don't listen to my gut feeling as often as I wish I would
10. I can be impulsive but I actually don't mind that either, never regretted any Impulsive decision I made

[DizzyDesii]

Wow nice list. I meant make a mytake but oh well haha

[melanieeeB]

Lol thanks, I'm in a writing flow lately

[Anpu23]

10 flaws let's see
1 I am busy! I work anywhere from 2 to 16 jobs depending on what you count as a job. I alao have a large set of time consuming hobbies. I actually schedule time for my wife and family.
2 I am horrible with money, one of the reasons why I work so many jobs. I can ballance my companies income and control it's spending but my personal finances are a mess.
3 I hate vacations. I can't relax knowing that I have a bunch of stuff I need to get done.
4 I do not see texts as important, and I very well might ignore a text for days if not weeks. If it's important call me.
5 If it's important I will call you, if I text you it is not a big deal.
6 Part of some of my work involves pornography. It's all animated and digital but part of my work is looking at and drawing buts.
7 I have almost a constant stream of nude women in my world, even my newscast comes from naked ladies
8 I hate clutter, but I collect things. Creating a weird oscillation between a desire to throw everything I own away and needing that one thing that I just have to have.
9 I listen to very different music. No where near mainstream.
10 I dress how I want, often somewhere between punk, goth and new romantic. Unless it's required for business I'm as likely to be in a kilt as pants.
11- bonus I play bagpipes

[DizzyDesii]

Holy smokes 16 jobs! And wow you hate vacays omg no lol. I agree texts are not that important. Im a talker.

[Anpu23]

Really it's my full time day job, and my company, and various partnerships or business projects I'm involved in one way or another. I have a vested interest in multiple other companies most owned by various friends

[weysally]

1/ I'm a sucker for compliments,
2/ in talking I have to put my idea over
3/ I'm sexually weak, meaning if I fancy some one I want them
4/ I' a clothes fanatic.
5/ not good at food shopping
6/ I'm a good girl that can go bad
7/ I'm too weak to say no to a cruise
8/ sometimes I'm too much of an exhibitionist
9/ needs a lot of attention
10/ hate when people are late for appointments

[DizzyDesii]

#8 and 10 is so me hahaa

[weysally]

good

[yeeeeeeeet]

1. I'm a fucking idiot
2. I have pride issues
3. I have abandonment issues
4. I suck at keeping up with current events
5. I don't have a car
6. I live with my parents
7. I can't read other's emotions well at all
8. I will always think I look like shit
9. I can't win any tournaments in the game I spent over 2, ooo hours on and went pro in.
10. About 40% of my opinions are unpopular.

[DizzyDesii]

I meant make a mytake but thanks for the list :)

[yeeeeeeeet]

Ah. See no. 1

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao its ok

[Völva]

Very creative!

1. I’m very vindictive when wronged. I have no issues putting a curse on someone.

2. I value nature more than I value any human alive.

3. I’m inflexible with my morals.

4. I don’t like being around too many people. It makes me very nervous!

5. I’m too idealistic.

6. I am deeply paranoid of being around men. It’s nothing against them personally, I’m just petrified of sexual assault.

7. I’m not close to my family anymore because they can’t accept my religion and what I do (or don’t do) for it.

8. I don’t trust authorities

9. I’m not afraid of animals

10. I let my snake roam my place because I don’t want him to feel like he’s a captive. He’s my partner and friend.

[SuitAndTie]

1. I'm short
2. I tend to overthink
3. I can be impatient
4. I can disrespect people without knowing it
5. I get jealous a lot
6. I'm envious of certain people
7. I lack confidence in certain areas
8. I get into arguments easily
9. I tend not to lend money even though I'm more than able to
10. I can be defensive

[DizzyDesii]

Lol im all 10... but how tall are u

[SuitAndTie]

5'5"

[DizzyDesii]

I usually prefer 5’7 and up but at least you're taller

[SuitAndTie]

Result!

[DizzyDesii]

Im saying at keast you're taller than me

[SuitAndTie]

I know. I was just playing.

[DizzyDesii]

What month is your bday lol

[SuitAndTie]

February

[lanadelrey25]

Hmm we are pretty awesome aren't we? Our cons are on a minimum compared to some people lmao Also who is the guy in the love conquers all gif? Or what movie is that from?

[DizzyDesii]

He plays the penguin on Gotham

[lanadelrey25]

Thank u! He looks sexy in that gif lmao

[lanadelrey25]

I just looked him up and he's only sexy in that gif... :(

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao yes he a hot mess on the show but thays cause he's playin the penguin lol

[Belgie]

I'm not as tolerant as I wish I was.
I have a short fuse and a quick temper
I hold grudges.
I judge people who don't do well in school.
I judge people who don't read.
I believe in some stereotypes
I find lots of things funny which many people find offensive.

The thing about knowing your flaws is that you can work on them.

[DizzyDesii]

Thank you and very true

[hhues]

1. I have bipolar disorder
2. I am shit at money management
3. I am messy
4. I am EXTREMELY patient
5. I'm not the best at time management, but I've gotten a lot better at it

That's about all I can think of right now, I dont often think about things that are wrong with me.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn

[Huhni]

1. tall
2. kind
3. naughty... lol not always tho
4. caring for others
5. love all types of nationality
6. can cry easily
7. unconfident sometimes
8. very calm person
9. I can't say no... lol
10. I love my life

[xTom98]

hmmm, It would require me to list my flaws... those are usually confidential :D

Your take is really well written tho, enjoyed reading it a lot :)
Some of those I wouldn't really call flaws, much rather unique character traits.

[thechesseman]

I'm a fat drunken slob. I'm arrogant. I have tiny little chicken ankles. I have impulse control issues. I can't spell. I often don't know what day it is. I talk to myself while making stabbing motions. Finally I'm very vindictive.

[DizzyDesii]

U act like you're stabbing yourself? And lol I don't know what day it is either

[thechesseman]

No the hand gestures I make while I'm talking to myself look like I'm trying to stab other invisible people.

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i see

[JDavid25]

I knew a lot of these about you already... Should have also put how you don't like banter unless you dishin it out.. LMAO.. JK.. But I can relate to #2, and #3 though..

[Hans222]

I recognize myself in some things, like not liking new technology and liking routine. I'm into those as well :D

[Nivinxus]

Sounds like fun, gimme a few hours and I'll tag you... and your dog.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont have a dog

[Nivinxus]

Ok, future or imaginary dog...

[DizzyDesii]

I SAID im afraid of dogs in the take...

[Dchrls78104]

None of your listed flaws is a dealbreaker for me. In fact I myself may struggle with no. 7 and I can relate to no. 9.

[DizzyDesii]

Ooh good :)

[DizzyDesii]

You can make a mytake too if u want

[SirRexington]

Really dude? Like all of them were. Commitment issues being a big one

[Dchrls78104]

@SirRexington for you! But except for the bit about the love triangles, I don't see anything there that would completely turn me off.

[SirRexington]

You do you man. To me that is a big red flag, for your mentality too.

[DizzyDesii]

@SirRexington i dont cheat. Did u not read the detail? I said that if you're not making me you girlfriend or something more, then i will flirt freely... but once im someones girlfriend, im loyal

[Dchrls78104]

@DizzyDesii now I hate love triangles and people who procrastinate too long, but I'm sure I could live with everything else you listed.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont procrastinate? Love triangles are an every now and again thing but they only happen if im still single and start to realize that someone else may be more fit for me than whoever i was trying to talk to atm

[SergeantSmoke]

Nuh-uh... You're STILL flawless.

[DizzyDesii]

Lol 🙃

[ultimega]

I could have a go, I only made one my take since being here..

[DizzyDesii]

Ok nice

[ultimega]

I never know what to write for them though, lol

[SketchForger]

I'll see what I can do

[DizzyDesii]

Sounds good

[ChiPaPa]

Okies. I will smackadapolis a mytake

[DizzyDesii]

Lol ok

[Tim-loves-it]

Nothing wrong with that

[DizzyDesii]

Okay :) feel free to make a mytake too

[Tim-loves-it]

Umm whats that?

[DizzyDesii]

Of what i just did

[Tim-loves-it]

AH.. maybe