There is a reason we are created the way that we are. Just like there is a reason for everything that happens. I don't believe that we are meant to be alone. Not that it's a bad thing to be alone but i believe that we all have a significant other. Maybe you just haven't found him yet.
Feel the same as you about this stuff. I used to try relationships and often found I was bored or feeling manipulated, used or short changed. The worst thing for me is a guy who expects me to be always available and wanting to see him when he wants to see me, with no thought to how I might want more or less me time.
I do agree with some of our points, I love being free and feeling free and having my space and being alone from time to time. But I would love to have someone by my side who I love very much
I deffs want a relationship, but like u, i value autonomy and most people are casual about romance and I wouldn't waste my time like that. For me its a huge sacrifice to be with someone so it better be worth it
I dont think so mam. Women are to independent these days, so much so, that they dont need men, whether they live alone because they like it or live alone because of being involved with a career makes no difference to me because they are alone and hidden. They are simply happy at the moment being single, but are my age or older realizing they are almost too old now to have kids just as they say in those youtube documentaries not realizing where the time went. The good guys like me suffer for it.
You're happy only because it's your choice and you can leave it whenever you decide. For people like who can't leave it, loneliness is a burden I carry whether I want it or not.
Yeah I've got two friends, that's it. We rarely speak to each other. I'm mentally detached from my girlfriend and my family, I feel ok though, everyone around says I'm depressed, but that's just how I am
I want to not be alone, but people either ignore me, or take advantage of me when I try to form a bond with them. Some people aren't meant to be happy, maybe I'm one of those people.
Its difficult to gibe an opinion, because of the simple fact that everone is made differently, have different, urges, desires and/or contentment in the way they believe or act.
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There is a reason we are created the way that we are. Just like there is a reason for everything that happens. I don't believe that we are meant to be alone. Not that it's a bad thing to be alone but i believe that we all have a significant other. Maybe you just haven't found him yet.
Feel the same as you about this stuff. I used to try relationships and often found I was bored or feeling manipulated, used or short changed. The worst thing for me is a guy who expects me to be always available and wanting to see him when he wants to see me, with no thought to how I might want more or less me time.
I do agree with some of our points, I love being free and feeling free and having my space and being alone from time to time. But I would love to have someone by my side who I love very much
Solitude doesn't necessarily mean lonely. I feel you.
I want a relationship but I know there's a lot of risks involved. Risks such as him cheating on me
I am happier normally by myself and people normally just annoy me.
But that been said i do want one person to be with.
I deffs want a relationship, but like u, i value autonomy and most people are casual about romance and I wouldn't waste my time like that. For me its a huge sacrifice to be with someone so it better be worth it
I am able to enjoy my own exclusive company indefinitely. It does not mean I have nothing to share or have no desire to share love and joy every day.
The irony... The reason why guys like me are lonely is because you are happy.
I’m a minority I promise
I dont think so mam. Women are to independent these days, so much so, that they dont need men, whether they live alone because they like it or live alone because of being involved with a career makes no difference to me because they are alone and hidden. They are simply happy at the moment being single, but are my age or older realizing they are almost too old now to have kids just as they say in those youtube documentaries not realizing where the time went. The good guys like me suffer for it.
You're happy only because it's your choice and you can leave it whenever you decide.
For people like who can't leave it, loneliness is a burden I carry whether I want it or not.
Yeah I've got two friends, that's it. We rarely speak to each other. I'm mentally detached from my girlfriend and my family, I feel ok though, everyone around says I'm depressed, but that's just how I am
yeah its better honestly you don't have to worry about texting back or losing someone having to waste money thinking about where to go for hours
I cannot fully relate to this. but if it makes you happy, great.
I want to not be alone, but people either ignore me, or take advantage of me when I try to form a bond with them. Some people aren't meant to be happy, maybe I'm one of those people.
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People like you intrigue me, because you are so different.
Everyone's personality differs so the reason for happiness will be obviously different.
I feel the same. Many of my friends and their partners are always trying to set me up or push me into dating. But I'm not interested in that.
Its difficult to gibe an opinion, because of the simple fact that everone is made differently, have different, urges, desires and/or contentment in the way they believe or act.
no that's insane, you can't have happiness with loneliness,
you CAN have happiness with being single (not lonely), but you can't have a fulfilling life