I find self harm scars on a girl attractive!?

[Anonymous]

I don't know why. I just find them to make a girl more beautiful, am I just sick on the head?

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I don't mean. EXTREME ones

[airbear2626]

This is a really really strange thing. I kind of don't know how exactly to respond but you know with girls like that, there are usually a lot of complications and emotional instabilities... I don't know why you find that attractive, its not healthy for someone to cut. The only reason why I could think you'd like girls who cut is because they may have a gothic type look that you're into? I don't know but not all people who cut are like that. The only way this would make sense to me is if you yourself are a cutter. Other than that, I'd say its a strange attraction...

[Asker]

I'm not a cutter, or in to goth,

[blazer1025]

I cut but many consider me goth or emo

[blazer1025]

I meant to put that anonymous...

[airbear2626]

well then I really don't know what to tell you. Some things are just inexplicable. I don't think this is a good think to find attractive because its not healthy. But I mean you can't necessarily change how you feel...

[Anonymous]

That's really not a good thing to find attractive. There's nothing attractive about someone's emotional turmoil that causes them to harm themselves. I think you have some issues you may need to figure out, and I don't mean this to be harsh at all. It's not healthy to find something like that attractive.

[wildspirit]

Its more common then you think. I self harm and multiple guys said it was hot. But I will say in my experience those guys have sadistic tendencies and were more turned on by the thought of me actually hurting myself than the scars themselves. So be careful on that..

[rthomas43]

Theory.
Maybe you like damaged girls because it gives you the opportunity to be their hero?

[Asker]

Maybe, I don't know

[TranceSai]

Well said

[rthomas43]

Thanks for MH :)

[itlana]

I have a few scars everyone likes different things but it doesn't make you weird it just makes you diffrent =)

[05Jueey]

Are you a sexual sadist maybe? I dont think it makes you sick

[dat_one_bish]

U might think its attractive but think how that girl feels I got cigarette scars on my body and I don't feel attractive at all

[TranceSai]

Im in the same boat!

[Asker]

YAY!