well i've never called anyone ugly before (not even lying - i was afraid if i called them that someone in the future would call me that as well) thinking is alright but i never say it out aloud. But here's what you do and say: "Really, your really beautiful too" trust I've been called ugly before heck everyone has been called that before even the most beautiful of all the people. Some models have gotten called ugly. My friend calls me it all the type guys call each other that, why : 1. They're jealous 2. They wanna make themselves feel better and be jerks 3. they have nothing better to do 4. They're regarding your mood and your personality and how you act and react 5. All of the above. Dont let it get to you man, You ain't ugly, trust me ugly is when one side of your face is completely different from the others if your face is not proportional or out of proportion, thank Allah most people in the world are not like that.
I just saw your pic and you are not "ugly" to me I wld say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder if you don't feel i am pretty than I'm not for you" .. people know what to say just to make a person feel bad dnt let it bring you down. my ex bf has told me so many hurtful things, called me names and than in the end comes out with he's sorry.. he didn't mean it just upset. .. soo.. dnt always believe what people say they speak out of anger and ignorance they weren't taught maturity and wisdom you dnt say things like that to people. If you dnt like a person than just walk away.. but like I said I've seen your pic and trust me you aren't "ugly" no such things as ugly. Just that person isn't for you because when the right person comes they will accept you with everything just as you are.. because to them everything you do and how you are is beautiful. . cheer up and shake those people off
"tell me something i don't know" that's how i respond to any insult. people want to get a reaction out of you, not a resigned acceptance of their insult.
@libifer haha, awesome. Full disclosure, I have no tats. I read the pic quickly and didn't see that part. It's all good though, we'll pretend I have some for this instance, haha
Your not ugly. But also keep in mind the "ugly duckling" becomes a beautiful swan after puberty and all of that. Check this out: https://cu.viralnova.com/ugly-ducklings/
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People are only considered 'ugly' when they don't fit someone's personal preference. Yea... there are universally attractive people and blah blah blah, but there's always at least one person who'll see you in a different light. So, do you care about the opinions of a bunch of programmed zombies who've been brainwashed by the media or that one special person? Even if you haven't found that person, you could just ignore all of them and develop your own self worth outside of people's opinions. You're not ugly by the way.
Honestly if people are rude enough to tell you the then they're not even worth a response. If you respond they will think it hurt you but if you shrug it off and walk away they will be disappointed that they didn't get the reaction they wanted. They want to hurt you and want to sea your reaction, not reacting is the best thing you can do. by the way everyone is attractive to someone, don't worry about what they're saying because I've heard it too and letting it get to you is the worst thing you can do.
some people actually think im ugly. to them its true. its relative. to others.. im handsome lol. i think im pretty good looking. im a little offended if someone tells me but i know some people really dont like me and i understand, so im like makes sense. yeah dont kill them with kindness, your not doing yourself any favours your being a push over and sucking up. they see that and take full advantage thats probably why u get called ugly a lot, because you reward their bad behaviour. your an average good looking black male. ugly people usually see good looking people and envy them and call them ugly, so you think they are beautiful even if you scoff at the thought. they want that little acknowledgement that they are beautiful. but they must do the work themselves. you cannot tell them. you can't reward them for bad behaviour. you have to punish them. so get angry and pissed... you will then do them a favor and help them.
It depends on who calls you ugly, if its aa random person then its better to not react or something like OK great with annoyed look. But if its people you know. Oh well kindness never worked in my case, I've been called ugly, ignored and been laughed at so much in school and you know children can be pretty cruel. So the only thing that worked is to attack first, to make them feel how you feel. And I replied well its not your best day either to girls or something worse because everyone has insecurities and imperfections. After some time none called me ugly and they started to respect me, because in the first place they don't respect you when they call you ugly. And by the way your not ugly at all
Tell them "at least I'm not an insecure troll that puts his angst on other people" Or if they call you ugly, just respond with the classic "like yo momma!"
Honestly the best way to deal is to ignore them, because they're insecure and their hobby is to make other people feel worse so that they can feel better.
I do like your approach and all, but I would just like to inform you that you are not ugly.
Sure you're not a "stud" none of us are but you're not ugly, you're from it!
But personally I think o have a better approach. How about trying to have some confidence for once just looking in the mirror and loving what's staring right back at you. In courage and love yourslef and when someone calls you ugly do what i do laugh hysterically and say you must be joking and smile ;)
I haven't been called ugly directly but there have been times when the comment was implied. I try not to let others' opinions get to me but sometimes it kind of hurts. When this happens, I don't really respond, I just kind of remain quiet and hope the subject changes. I know I should just shrug it off and let it go but I'm still kind of at that really insecure stage of my life
If it's somebody you don't know don't let it bother you. If it's people you hang out with but don't necessarily consider friends they probably just want to bring you down to make themselves look better, which already says a lot about them. Close friends probably just teasing you, I've noticed guys friendships can be a bit harsh sometimes but when you need them they're usually the first ones there for you. I don't know I guess just be confident in who you are. No need/use to make a comeback. You're a handsome guy & nobody should bring you down.
First thing I looked at your pic and you are very very handsome. Second maybe those people that call you ugly are actually trying to flirt with you. Thrid when they do call you ugly don't mind it just be like "ok thats fine." there's no reason to be rude because they are. An ugly person is not judge from the outside but the inside shows the true beauty. For the notes YOUR FACE IS HANDSOME.
If that's your picture-you're not ugly. Some people choose to call others ugly when they themselves are insecure or jealous of hot people. People that are really ugly are not considered a threat-so n one actually calls them ugly to their face. It sounds like you have some ugly haters who are jealous of you! Don't let them bring you down!
I'm sure we've all been there, heard that. I just try to ignore people as best as possible in situations like that. You just gotta remember that you are awesome, and that whatever people think of you, can't bother you unless you let it.
Besides, you aren't unattractive anyway! I think sometimes people just like to say mean things because they have nothing else better to do with themselves.
yea sometimes i think they maybe they are just trying to get a reaction outta me so i do this face weknowmemes.com/.../go-on-impress-me-cat.jpg which makes them mad and me happy lol
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well i've never called anyone ugly before (not even lying - i was afraid if i called them that someone in the future would call me that as well) thinking is alright but i never say it out aloud. But here's what you do and say: "Really, your really beautiful too" trust I've been called ugly before heck everyone has been called that before even the most beautiful of all the people. Some models have gotten called ugly. My friend calls me it all the type guys call each other that, why : 1. They're jealous 2. They wanna make themselves feel better and be jerks 3. they have nothing better to do 4. They're regarding your mood and your personality and how you act and react 5. All of the above. Dont let it get to you man, You ain't ugly, trust me ugly is when one side of your face is completely different from the others if your face is not proportional or out of proportion, thank Allah most people in the world are not like that.
aha all so true!
I just saw your pic and you are not "ugly" to me I wld say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder if you don't feel i am pretty than I'm not for you" .. people know what to say just to make a person feel bad dnt let it bring you down. my ex bf has told me so many hurtful things, called me names and than in the end comes out with he's sorry.. he didn't mean it just upset. .. soo.. dnt always believe what people say they speak out of anger and ignorance they weren't taught maturity and wisdom you dnt say things like that to people. If you dnt like a person than just walk away.. but like I said I've seen your pic and trust me you aren't "ugly" no such things as ugly. Just that person isn't for you because when the right person comes they will accept you with everything just as you are.. because to them everything you do and how you are is beautiful. . cheer up and shake those people off
ugly 1223 handsome 3 now lol im getting there
Haha so that should tell you everybody has diffrent opinions so dnt let it affect you
im wondering how you look now inbox me lol
"tell me something i don't know"
that's how i respond to any insult. people want to get a reaction out of you, not a resigned acceptance of their insult.
I love that response, Ima say that if anyone insults me from now on :D
Or! ... give them a lot more than they were asking for, like 2 blueberry eyes >:)
Go loca chica
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The best response is to show someone that you don't care.
The way you respond is absolutely fine.
If you're looking to get under their skin you can say something like,
"Yeah... because you're beautiful!"
In a sarcastic way.
I find my nearest mirror for a confidence boost. XD
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I do this with my piercings 😊
@libifer haha, awesome. Full disclosure, I have no tats. I read the pic quickly and didn't see that part. It's all good though, we'll pretend I have some for this instance, haha
Your not ugly. But also keep in mind the "ugly duckling" becomes a beautiful swan after puberty and all of that.
Check this out: https://cu.viralnova.com/ugly-ducklings/
People are only considered 'ugly' when they don't fit someone's personal preference. Yea... there are universally attractive people and blah blah blah, but there's always at least one person who'll see you in a different light.
So, do you care about the opinions of a bunch of programmed zombies who've been brainwashed by the media or that one special person?
Even if you haven't found that person, you could just ignore all of them and develop your own self worth outside of people's opinions.
You're not ugly by the way.
Honestly if people are rude enough to tell you the then they're not even worth a response. If you respond they will think it hurt you but if you shrug it off and walk away they will be disappointed that they didn't get the reaction they wanted. They want to hurt you and want to sea your reaction, not reacting is the best thing you can do. by the way everyone is attractive to someone, don't worry about what they're saying because I've heard it too and letting it get to you is the worst thing you can do.
some people actually think im ugly. to them its true. its relative. to others.. im handsome lol. i think im pretty good looking. im a little offended if someone tells me but i know some people really dont like me and i understand, so im like makes sense. yeah dont kill them with kindness, your not doing yourself any favours your being a push over and sucking up. they see that and take full advantage thats probably why u get called ugly a lot, because you reward their bad behaviour. your an average good looking black male. ugly people usually see good looking people and envy them and call them ugly, so you think they are beautiful even if you scoff at the thought. they want that little acknowledgement that they are beautiful. but they must do the work themselves. you cannot tell them. you can't reward them for bad behaviour. you have to punish them. so get angry and pissed... you will then do them a favor and help them.
What? My name is not Ug Lee :(
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nice one lol
It depends on who calls you ugly, if its aa random person then its better to not react or something like OK great with annoyed look. But if its people you know. Oh well kindness never worked in my case, I've been called ugly, ignored and been laughed at so much in school and you know children can be pretty cruel. So the only thing that worked is to attack first, to make them feel how you feel. And I replied well its not your best day either to girls or something worse because everyone has insecurities and imperfections. After some time none called me ugly and they started to respect me, because in the first place they don't respect you when they call you ugly. And by the way your not ugly at all
thanks i feel a little better now lol
Absolutely
I don remember being called uhly. But I think this would work good:
"Really? Just (ugly/fat/stupid/etc)? What a relief! I thought I was way uglier/fatter/stupider/etc"
It would basically make them feel like they relieved some insecurity when they're trying to make you insecure.
another i might try next time if i can remember
Tell them "at least I'm not an insecure troll that puts his angst on other people"
Or if they call you ugly, just respond with the classic "like yo momma!"
Lmao love the classics ones.. hopefully a fight doesn't ensue shortly after though ^^
Yeahhhh I don't always recommend using the classic one tho...
Honestly the best way to deal is to ignore them, because they're insecure and their hobby is to make other people feel worse so that they can feel better.
I said the something as your 2nd message somewhere/to someone on this question ^^
I do like your approach and all, but I would just like to inform you that you are not ugly.
Sure you're not a "stud" none of us are but you're not ugly, you're from it!
But personally I think o have a better approach. How about trying to have some confidence for once just looking in the mirror and loving what's staring right back at you. In courage and love yourslef and when someone calls you ugly do what i do laugh hysterically and say you must be joking and smile ;)
https://www.socialgreetings.net/upload/hug-108.jpg thanks and im not ugly yay
Omg that kitte is just the cutest =} *hugs back*
lmao i wish i owned that cat ont he low though
If you don't like the picture don't stare at the painting...
Oooo, I like that.
oh man I've heard it all and this one is new lol
I haven't been called ugly directly but there have been times when the comment was implied. I try not to let others' opinions get to me but sometimes it kind of hurts. When this happens, I don't really respond, I just kind of remain quiet and hope the subject changes. I know I should just shrug it off and let it go but I'm still kind of at that really insecure stage of my life
nuy you're not ugly thought in the slightest
thanks, that's nice of you to say
media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/.../...734bd67ee044.jpg and you welcome
If it's somebody you don't know don't let it bother you. If it's people you hang out with but don't necessarily consider friends they probably just want to bring you down to make themselves look better, which already says a lot about them. Close friends probably just teasing you, I've noticed guys friendships can be a bit harsh sometimes but when you need them they're usually the first ones there for you. I don't know I guess just be confident in who you are. No need/use to make a comeback. You're a handsome guy & nobody should bring you down.
im handsome do you really mean that or are you trying to make me feel better https://www.socialgreetings.net/upload/hug-108.jpg
First thing I looked at your pic and you are very very handsome. Second maybe those people that call you ugly are actually trying to flirt with you. Thrid when they do call you ugly don't mind it just be like "ok thats fine." there's no reason to be rude because they are. An ugly person is not judge from the outside but the inside shows the true beauty. For the notes YOUR FACE IS HANDSOME.
thanks makes me feel a lot better
You are welcome
If that's your picture-you're not ugly. Some people choose to call others ugly when they themselves are insecure or jealous of hot people. People that are really ugly are not considered a threat-so n one actually calls them ugly to their face. It sounds like you have some ugly haters who are jealous of you! Don't let them bring you down!
yea check my profile if you want the link to more pics of me are on there lol... and thanks
I'm sure we've all been there, heard that. I just try to ignore people as best as possible in situations like that. You just gotta remember that you are awesome, and that whatever people think of you, can't bother you unless you let it.
Besides, you aren't unattractive anyway! I think sometimes people just like to say mean things because they have nothing else better to do with themselves.
yea sometimes i think they maybe they are just trying to get a reaction outta me so i do this face weknowmemes.com/.../go-on-impress-me-cat.jpg which makes them mad and me happy lol