How do you respond to being called ugly? (Page 3)

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yea i know this is a weird question but im one of those people who seem to get called ugly a lot for no apparent reason, i try not to let it get me down or lower my self esteem more than it already is

so to make them mad i reply with "yea im ugly but your not" then i smile to make them mad
 
i try to kill them with kindness

natty_ox · Answer

Honestly, in situations where people say hurtful things like that I usually just laugh it off, which I suppose is not greatest response, but I don't like confrontation. Ignore them; you're not ugly at all!

KokoaShuzen · Answer

I usually tell them "did someone ask for your opinion?" or "wow that. s all you. ve got?" you can. t expect more from these type of people.. try to ignore them. I know it. s so hard but in the end they don. t really matter... life is tough. I liked the "kill them with kindness " thingy. :)

pandagirl7 · Answer

Just say "meh" and continue on. It'll piss them off if they think that you aren't responding the way they want or expect you to.  You're not ugly by the way :)

Hopefuldreamer8 · Answer

"You're not the first person to tell me that. If you're going to insult me, come up with something good."

I get called ugly constantly. I know I'm ugly. They can't seem to come up with anything else. I also tell them to blame my parents for that.

-Zoe- · Answer

"try to kill them with kindness" - I like your idea :)
for me, I think I will reply them like "thank you" with a smile, then "what else, are you done judging my appearance? does it make you feel better now?". :)

Anonymous · Answer

Do the classic IDGAF or say that's not what your mom said last night.

brownchic · Answer

be like i am better looking than your mama who makes UGLIER babies like you!  lol you're answer is like pity one dont do that ! say what i wrote here!

LuoZilin · Answer

You could say:
A lion doesn't lose sleep over the opinions of sheep
Turn your head and walk away
OR
You could throw water at them and say you thought they would melt because they resemble witches;
OR
start acting crazy like your on drugs and start shaking like the exorcist and foam at the mouth making weird sounds, it will scare them off...
and your not ugly :)

Alexei_Ustinov · Answer

I say either: "Apparently the image of you in the mirror is burned into your skull and holy shit, you're right!" Or: "If you put your face by a door, no one would ever come in."

pyramid_princess · Answer

Never judge yourself by other peoples opinions! the best response is silence, it takes away peoples control over you, and they hate it. Replying to them feeds their ego ,

TripleAce · Answer

Look at them as if there the ones that are weird and simply find something gross about them and exploit it.

EVen something as small as a beauty mark can make a great rebuttal to a blonde bimbo who thinks she's all that and a bag of chips.

Modernhippy · Answer

I'm ugly so I feel the need to make up for it in the gym and so no one calls me ugly for fear I would kick their ass and because I don't really have to associate with assholes

AnyaElise · Answer

your are NOT ugly. Not that it'd be ok to call you ugly if you err bit you're completely not ugly. They are trying to make you feel shitty but they picked lame ammunition bc you're attractive.

kangy · Answer

I would ignore them and walk away Most important dont agree to what they said

basketballchick · Answer

id turn around and punch them in the face fucking although i might think that doesn't give anyone else the right to do so. 0:)

AnnabelLee23 · Answer

response: "your eyes just can't comprehend my beauty"

JocoMak · Answer

Make this your strength. Make jokes on your experience this will show that you are comfortable with your body. And when they see that you dont give a fuck they will stop.

jokery56 · Answer

if someone calls you ugly just be like "your not much to look at either" or just shrug it off by saying something like "what i wasn't really concerned about your opinion" or "okay" and see how amazing it is that they dont have a come back to it.

skullly · Answer

Like I'll say THANKS! :D! What kind of rude would just call someone ugly for no reason xD  Where do you live? in the island of assholes? D: cause seriously that is not normal!!

bonita_applebum · Answer

I like your comeback, people are just so rude and hateful, its annoying. I love that you're using kindness as a comeback

whynotaskyou · Answer

I used to get ugly a lot in middle school even one girl just came up to me and told me. Then after a while it ended. Your not ugly and you never will be, people can be immature.

WhoTheHellKnows · Answer

I pretty much do the same thing man. I'm just like "tell me something I don't already know." That seems to piss them off as they don't get the reaction they want/expect.

bijinbijinbijin · Answer

Everyone isn't meant for everyone. Just because one person doesn't think you are attractive doesn't mean you are not attractive to someone else.

PaigeAdorable · Answer

I just respond with "okay" and a smiley face or a winky face lol. I take a lot of quotes from Adventure Time, especially from LSP lol. They stop talking to me and I go on about my life.

Anonymous · Answer

I also smile, take my pecker out and point at it. Cheers!

CrystalMinds · Answer

Just reply with answers that make the other person feel you don't care. A couple of examples: - a blank stare  - laugh - say "thanks!" and actually sound sincere, not sarcastic

Balcazaurus · Answer

Although I've never been called straight up, "ugly", but I have been called, "not that great."

I've always known I was at least a 5, but yeah, other than that, just don't give a fuck about other people's douchery.

Oladeji123 · Answer

I just aay this

RationalMale · Answer

I've had enough gorgeous girls call me hot/stud that when one calls me ugly now, I'm able to brush it off with ease, lmao.

And remember, girls call everyone ugly as a basic insult. It has nothing to do with your looks.

AdamThomas · Answer

I just shrug it off. Who cares? Only an arsehole would call someone ugly so their opinion doesn't matter (that is unless they're talking about someone with an ugly personality).

Tinkerbell12 · Answer

Your not ugly at all! But I understand how you feel. I happen to be one of those people too. I just try to ignore it.

Paakhi · Answer

Y to bothr about wht they said? B whtevr u r... they r bloody fuckng people who doesn't know tht beauty comes frm inner heart... nt from physique... keep smiling till thn

sketchy · Answer

I may be ugly miss, but in the morning you will be sober and I will still be ugly. Wait, that's not right. I will be drunk? Oh, I don't know. Fuck it.

ChromAzonyx108 · Answer

~check yo vision
~you're no prize yourself (or something along those lines)
~we'll let Steve Harvey be the judge of that

Anyways, it's all relative. Everybody can be ugly and beautiful at the same time depending on who you ask and when you ask.

NovemberJoseph · Answer

Over 200 responses. This has to be a gag record.

Icarus45 · Answer

I don't really get called ugly but when I do I just say "Lol that's your opinion XD" - It just shows that their opinion will not affect my life in any way, as it is simply their own opinion & not a fact.

ShaeNielson · Answer

I haven't ever tried it, and I would never do that to someone.. But just remember, people knows that is one of the most hurtful things you can get called. It doesn't mean you are ugly, only that someone was trying to hurt you.

poppunk · Answer

I usually do respond but probs cry because I'm weak af honestly

Ashari · Answer

"Yeah, it's as ugly as your inside." u can reply this

Gemstone2411 · Answer

I used cry my eyes out but now I just smile and laugh saying 'I know'

TheReturnOfRae · Answer

You don't look ugly to me. In the face You kinda remind me of that former NFL player Keith who just won America's Next Top Model.

lace1228 · Answer

Smile and say thank you... it throws them off gaurd and probably upset's them for failing at being an ass.

Anonymous · Answer

Go ahead and hug them to show that you are there as support for their faulty sight;) No but seriously just ignore them, they're probably just jealous.

Kyndra · Answer

I've never been called ugly, at least not to my face.

ChaosKilledTheDinos · Answer

I think your response is incredibly mature and shows that you're a better person.

youngisthan · Answer

I would say the person yes i do feel the same for you. ;)

Wanghe20512 · Answer

I would reply"fuck you asshole/ bitch, care about your own face";)

cth96190 · Answer

Forget about it and move on.  Remember, bulldogs are "dog ugly" but their humans love them to bits. 😀

Account · Answer

/insert self-deprecating comment like: Yeah, I know. See, my looks match my personality. Or if I am not in the mood: "Lovely. Alright, thanks."

pedro28 · Answer

hahahaha what you say doesn't matter it's how you say it... and by what I'm reading you're already doing it. so keep up the good work :)

chikitou1 · Answer

Just smile back and take it as a joke and then stay away from these people. You don't wanna be around them.

Anonymous · Answer

Mostly I just cry in the shower at night and stare at the mirror, followed by lay awake in my bed trying to think of reasons other than my face for why I'm single.

been_waiting · Answer

You could always try the old "I'm rubber and you are glue, whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks to you." Its lame but at least it's funny.

strawberrynecklace · Answer

Im so sorry to hear this... I'd just throw it in their face, "so what's your point?"

linkywinky · Answer

I used to just laugh. It's been years since I've been around anyone immature enough to call me ugly to my face, though.

Thegoodgirl88 · Answer

If somebody calls me Ugly,  I just look at them smile and say so I've been call worst and your no prize in the looks department either

SailorMars · Answer

I wouldn't respond, responding would give them the sastifaction that they desire. You're not ugly at all and they are incredibly rude

slackercruster · Answer

I'm not into guys, but you look OK to me. Only ignorant people go around calling others ugly. I'd ignore and avoid them.

Elsa2ne1 · Answer

Just say "ok" they are seeking an emotional response and you win if you dont give it to them

Auntylily_x · Answer

Say a lot of people look like you so at least your not the only ugly person. Say you got it from your father.

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