My friends with benefits asked me if I missed him. Why would he? -.-?

[Anonymous]

He asked me this in person while kissing me. J did not know how to respond. If I said, "Yes" it'll show he's been in my mind all along. "No" to me sounds super rude. So I went and said "a little." Why would he ask that?

[docmeister]

because he wants to take it to the next level.

sex produces strong emotions

friends with benefits either ends or you move up to the next level ie bf/gf

[Asker]

True. You have a point

[zinithin]

I dated this girl once who always wanted me to say that I missed her. I thought it was weird too. He probably wants to feel wanted.

[Starnight315]

Elaborate please? Like how or in what ways we do to make a guy feel more wanted?

[incognito121]

Because he wants to feel like he is the only man in your life and that you are not going with anyone else

[Asker]

Not only that when I mention a friend he went as far as asking whether they were male or female...

[ThatGuy98]

This is why I don't believe in the whole "friends with benefits thing", sex is as emotional as it is physical and when you are having sex you are building up emotions between you.