Suddenly, I missed him badly after weeks?

[Anonymous]

We have two months that we felt apart.. I thought I was healed, cause even that I knew him from years, we were lover for a short time.

I thought I was over him, I even went on date with another guy.. it wasn’t the same

today im Missing him like never before.. why s suddenly? Am I pathetic? Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

Totally normal! This will not be the first or last time you have a trigger moment that catches you off guard. Don’t ignore it and instead allow yourself to feel whatever emotion you’re experiencing, then pick yourself back up and keep moving forward. Just don’t allow it to send you running back.

[Asker]

Im shocked! I thought I was over.. something inside me really hurts

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry, I’ve been there so I definitely get it. Took me almost a year to stop
Having those random moments, even while trying to date others. I’ve heard before that these feelings are a result of how much emotions and time we invested in that guy/situation. I also heard that it takes about half the time it took you to fall for him to get over him.

[MikeTheBartender]

I'm suddenly missing mine after a whole damn year... Was fine... Initially no issues. She started dating someone and initially I didn't care. But in the last month I feel like it's been a hit of PTSD and I'm losing sleep, depression, etc

[Asker]

How did u break up

[MikeTheBartender]

Peacefully. Just ongoing little problems mainly w her not wanting to grow up, nice girl but couldn't get shit done and it stressed me to the point where we couldn't have sex. We broke up peacefully and stayed friends on social... Which honestly has gotten a lot harder in the last month.

[Asker]

Did u suffer the moment that u broke up

[MikeTheBartender]

No... A little sad, and even had BRIEF thoughts of asking her to move in w me... But wasn't anywhere near as sad as I am now... 11 months later.

[Anonymous]

i miss her too everyday i haven't reached out because i been afraid of what her family might say and think especially after what her older sister said and i know she's still with that other guy and i don't want to get hurt again. not speaking to her has been killing me inside everyday. i'm caught between a rock and hard place a double edged sword