Isn't it weird that I've never gotten into a real fight ever and I'm 23?

[RoderLK]

Outside wrestling with my friends, playing tug of war or pretending it were a fight (to practice), nope I have never gotten into a real brawl nor fist fight.

I know most guys and well all my best friend have gotten their share of fights. I'm I odd for not having a fight story to tell?

How do girls generally feel about this? If a guy never fought for real in his life?

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+1 y

Going to assume I'm just lucky. But whenever my friends share about their fights back in middle, HS or at a bar, I feel kind of excluded on the topic since I got nothing to tell.

[ambertaylor]

Not a bad or good thing, irrelevant to me. It doesn't matter and isn't a factor in deciding if you're right for me. If I was your girlfriend, I don't want you to fight but I want to be safe in the knowledge that if someone broke in to our place that you'd defend us.

[RoderLK]

Yes, I do have fighting skill from all those practices and one of my friends correcting me back then (one of them is a martial artist and he taught me a lot). That would be my only reason I would fight, someone trying to hurt my loved ones; mother, friend or partner.

[ambertaylor]

Yes and that's what's important, the fact that you can find if you need too but don't just fight for the hell of it. That's more attractive to me than someone who has been in numerous, meaningless, petty fights.

[Anonymous]

Do you have siblings? If you do then I'm shocked you've never fought before.

[RoderLK]

Nope... I'm an only child

[RoderLK]

maybe that's partly why... I guess I'm lucky

[Opinion Owner]

Haha well there's your answer! Yes, you are lucky... but deprived.

[RoderLK]

true but yes I can assure that if someone were trying to hurt my loved ones then yes that there is bound to be a fight and I do have fighting skills from all those practices. Hopefully that never happens. I actually hate drama.

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn't everyone hate drama? yeah, well that's good to know you'll stick up for the ones you love. That's the only time I think fighting is warranted.

[Klaatu51]

Weird?

That's actually a good thing... it means you're a peaceful person

[meatballs21]

Getting into a real fight is NOT something to aspire to.

[RoderLK]

Ironically a girl told me this same thing once too when I told her I never got into a fight. She had a smile in her face. This was back in when I was a sophomore in HS. This surprised me because a couple friends would tell me that girls are attracted to guys that fight.

[Ihav2fart]

Not weird and that's a good thing. I don't see you fighting in the future considering people start chilling out as they get older.

[Iron_Man]

wow I have had so many street fights and school yard fights I won them all