Sex with a girl?

Hello, Im a college student in NY city. I have one issue since 2012. I was and am thinking to have sex with a girl. I'm still curious about the sex itself. I haven't met any girls to be my gf at all. Some people told me that you should have sex with someone before you get a gf. Because you should feel the sex in young age. Well, I tried over 20 times but never happened or failed to do so... Yeah it takes 3 years and never sex with a girl. Because of this, few guys told me to have sex when you get a gf. Guess what, I don't have a gf. In this moment, I'm really wondering to have sex with someone or not just for fun. All I want to do is to experience the first sex. I want to get clear answers from people so that I can control myself. Should I just find a girl for sex or make a gf first? by the way, do not argue that I just want to have sex with a girl. I'm just uncertain about what I'm doing.
Sex with a girl?
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