Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI vote YES
and veterans of train travel realize that this happens from time-time so nothing was thought of this GRAZE other than vicarious pleasure.
We don't often ponder how OFTEN we graze the guys, sometimes don't realize it even afterwards.
Hugging his arm = grazing, be it strolling or partner in dance class
Full frontal bear hugs, often with a kiss finale = grazing big time
Guess who? Hands over eyes from behind surprise often is a back graze
Crowded trains = crowded airports, busses, movies, sports events, et al.
I don't want to get into cup size as this happens to all gals but I've heard more grazing reports from the middle sized group... so guessing you are a "C"03 Reply
Asker+1 yWell I grew up in the country so not much train travel until I moved to the city... I'm not a veteran boob grazer.
I'm a DD.
Opinion Owner+1 yOh, OK
another tact would be to use your arms to spread a path prior with "excuse me, this is my stop coming up" and not afraid to poke ribs with fingers... with a big smile... the herd these cows, country gal
Asker+1 yThanks for the tips :-)
I'm gonna try some of those - haha
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+1 yThat's quite funny sorry haha but I don't think it's a big deal I accidently hit a women up the ass with my large and filled handbag the other day ! Don't let it worry you
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Asker+1 yThat's ok, discussing it here on has made me laugh about it - some excitement up there from the guys... and it isn't even the most embarrassing thing I have done (it was much worse when I was about 25 I accidentally grabbed a random guys dick and I didn't even see his face).
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Lol you proberly made his day and I agree I love this site and people actually can discuss there answers unlike yahoo etc ! Maybe you should do it as much as u can if u ever feel a bit down haha! I'm sure that man remebers that well you sounded like a funny 25 yr old !
Asker+1 yIt is great how you get opinions from real people of all walks of life on here.
I don't think I'd be brave enough to do these things on purpose - lol. My friend said maybe on a subconscious level I did do it on purpose... (yeah, thanks).
The penis grab was just an unfortunate (or fortunate as the case may be) placement of the hand as I was gently swinging my arms in a really crowded place - I had turned to say something to my friend and all of a sudden this thought shot through my head - OMG, who's dick is that in my hand? And seriously, I could feel everything like he was wearing boxers. I let go as he walked past and I turned to look at him just as he turned away (so I only saw the side of his face) but my friend trailing behind me immediately raced up demanding to know what the hell I had done to this guy and looking at me like I'd just had sex with him. She said after the grab he stopped and looked me up and down, smirked and puffed out his chest and walk away... lol
+1 yHow can a guy really know or tell the difference? Lol I don't think guys can tell the diff b/w boo. Or someone's arm brushing
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Asker+1 yYes, I wondered that - I've tried brushing them on my arm to see how they feel different to other body parts but I have more feeling in the boobs than my arm so I can't really tell. One guy on here said "Marshmellows"...
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+1 yhe probably did.
and since your cougar age, he probably thought you did it on purpose.
gotta love any boob touches... on purpose or not
remember that episode of Friends when they didn't want to tell Joey his show sucked, so Phoebe said she was just going to "press by breasts against him"
she did and he just smiled... lol... that is how nice that is lol...
you shoulda went after him... raaarrrrr04 Reply
Asker+1 yHaha... Yes I do recall that episode now. OMG, it was actually an accident.
Funny that if a random guy put his penis on me I don't think I would be happy about it...- +1 y
Well that is the unfortunate difference between men and women. men want sex and will take a naked woman or parts at anytime...
Asker+1 yHahaha...
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Lol!!! Aww phoebe
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThis should explain everything you need to know here :D
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLpTvsqMNJE14 Reply- +1 y
LOL love him
Asker+1 yHAHAHAHA - yes well explained and very funny. Thanks for sharing the clip :-)
Asker+1 yA lot of great reaponses... I think this video sums it up.
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+1 yThis happens to me a lot... o. O
I'm not a guy, but I don't think he thought anything of it.
Ad least I wouldn't.
But they can definitely feel boobs on their back - they have a radar for it I'm told. xD11 Reply
Asker+1 yLol - thanks :-)
It hadn't actually happened to me before - I just moved to the city recently so it's way more crowded...
If you've got double Ds, he definitely knew what they were lol. I get a huge smile on my face just thinking about a big pair of titties, let alone feeling them. And yes, young guys are attracted to hot older women ;-)
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Asker+1 yLol - thanks for your comment. Sounds like he definitely felt it and knew what it was - only one touched him as I was kinda side on.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYeah, we can definitely tell! When he smiled at you did you catch him briefly looking down to check out the pair he felt on his back? I'm sure he wanted to size them up!
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Asker+1 yHaha.. He was looking at me smiling and then when I looked at him he diverted his eyes like down to the ground and said "sorry" - I don't recall if he stopped between my eyes and the ground but if he did it was only for a moment.
Opinion Owner+1 yLOL! Yeah--he definitely checked them out! Were they dressed to impress or where you covering them up?
Asker+1 yHow are you so certain he checked them out?
I was just wearing a nice top as it was after work so nothing low cut or anything
Opinion Owner+1 yBecause I'm a guy and if I felt a nice pair of boobs against my back I'd want to have a look at them! Plus looking down toward the ground as a great subtle way to check out the rack on the way down! XD Do you think he liked what he saw?
Asker+1 yI don't know... I'm thinking maybe the "sorry" was because he apologised for checking them out? He looked embarrassed at that point.
Opinion Owner+1 yHahahaha! So he got caught staring, huh? I take it you have nice boobs then? XD
Asker+1 yWell I couldnt work out what the sorry was for exactly as he wasn't obviously checking them out -but maybe he was...
I dont know what makes boobs 'nice boobs'.
Opinion Owner+1 yIf he was checking them out it would have been obvious to him and he probably thought it was obvious to you too. As for what makes nice boobs, I'm surprised you wouldn't know! lol!
Asker+1 yWell I always think beauty is in the eye of the beholder - some like them big others like them small...
Opinion Owner+1 yTrue, true. But there are certainly some boobs that get more attention than others.
Asker+1 yI dont think mine are in that category.
Opinion Owner+1 yI'd be happy to provide an expert opinion should you need one!
Asker+1 yHahaha -thanks but I'm not sending an pics.
Opinion Owner+1 yThat's too bad! It sounds like the guy on the train would've liked to have a mug shot of the pair that was poking him in the back! lol!
Asker+1 yHaha -he looked pleased with how it felt (smile) but not sure after that - he didn't stare at them bit I think he was being polite.
Opinion Owner+1 yLOL! How did he looked pleased by how they felt? Feeling them is typically even more fun than seeing them! XD
Asker+1 yWell I saw his smiling face after I dragged them across his back.
Opinion Owner+1 yYep, that sounds about right! The best I've had happen on a crowded train, there was a hot girl wearing thin pants in front of me and when the train accelerated she'd back up into me and repeatedly bump her ass into my crotch. That had me smiling too! lol!
Asker+1 yHaha -what's better boob or ass?
Opinion Owner+1 yI'm generally more of a boob fan. This was nice because the height basically meant her ass was rubbing up against me dick though. It was a bit embarrassing because I'm sure she could feel it since I could clearly feel both her cheeks on either side of me when she'd back into me.
Asker+1 yHahaha - that is really funny! Did it start making you hard?
Opinion Owner+1 yIt did. Fortunately, I was still soft when most of the bumping occurred, but I definitely started getting hard as a result.
Asker+1 yHaha - well she probably did feel it but I am sure she understood.
Opinion Owner+1 yYeah--it would have been hard for her not to feel it, though maybe she just thought it was something in a pocket or what not. But yeah, I was nestled right in the crack of her butt and could easily feel her on both sides me so it inevitably got me twitching in response. I don't think she was on me long enough to feel me getting hard though. lol!
Asker+1 yShe's gotta have known it was your dick - not many things in the pocket that shape with that texture. Haha. She was probably quite enbarressed... not quiye as bad as me in my mid 20's when I did an accidental dick grab! Swinging my arms as I walked in a crowded place and turned to a friend next to me and - OMG, is that a dick in my hand? Yep it is! Lol...
Opinion Owner+1 yWait, what? You actually grabbed a guy's dick? What happened there? Did it react?
Opinion Owner+1 yC'mon QA--don't leave me hanging! It sounds like you didn't leave the guy in your story hanging! lol!
Asker+1 ySorry, was offline for a while - yes a was in my 20's. I was in a crowded place walking with some friends and turned to talk to one of them. As I turned to her this thought shot through my head "omg, is that a dick in my hand? (momentary feel around).. yep that indeed is someone's dick. Omg, he must be wearing boxers as it ain't in a neat little package". I let go and swung around to look at him... he had already walked past and I only saw his profile as he strutted off. My friend trailing behind came racing up and says "OH... MY... GOD! What the hell did you just do?" Like I had jusr had sex with him cause she saw his reaction - surprised look as he walked past me then turns back to look at me, looks me up and down, smiles, turns to walk away, and puffs out his chest as he walks off. No I didn't feel him get hard.
Opinion Owner+1 yHow on earth did his dick end up in your hand? How long was it there?
Asker+1 yI think I swung my arm when I was walking and turned to my friend to talk and he just happened to be there. I dont think it was there for long - maybe 3-5 seconds. A lot of thoughts flew threw my head in that time.
Opinion Owner+1 ySo your hand just landed on his dick and you kept it there for a few seconds? Did you wrap your hand around it at all? I'm surprised he didn't start to get hard.
Asker+1 yHis whole dick was sitting in my up turned hand. I could feel his balls, the head, like the whole thing just hanging there lol. Yeah I did feel him get a bit firm but it hadn't actually stood up. Maybe it did when I let go, I dont know. He didn't stick around for long so I guess he worked out it was an accident (?)
Asker+1 yAnd I did feel around the head/shaft (just confirming yes it was a dick)...
Ps, I am 6 ft so my hands are big for a girl...
Opinion Owner+1 yIf you were feeling around the head shaft and balls, it's no wonder he started to get firm! Nice dick?
Asker+1 yFrom what I felt I guess so... I didn't get to see it or feel it erect... If you just got to feel a pussy for a few seconds could you come to the conclusion as to whether it was a nice one or not?
Opinion Owner+1 yFair point. It'd be tough to get a sense that quickly with a pussy, but certainly possible with a pair of boobs or an ass.
Asker+1 yI guess there isn't much to boobs or ass - they are just mounds lol. What do you consider to be nice boobs or ass?
Opinion Owner+1 yTrue, true! Happy to expound further. It might be easier if you messaged me.
he knoew it was a boob, and he liked it. So he gave you a smile. probably you won't meet him again... so it's over.
But in case destinty will put you again on the same train... well you can smile him back ans see what's gonna ahppen :)01 Reply
Asker+1 yLOL
Thanks... I think I'd be too embarrassed to smile at him now
+1 yHe didn't know most likely. That is how pick-pockets operate. Bump or rub against someone and they cannot distinguish you grabbing at their ass for a wallet as opposed to accidental touching.
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Asker+1 yLOL - that could work
He probably felt it. I'm sure most guys would agree we love a random boon graze here and there haha.
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Asker+1 yIt looks like most guys on here have certainly agreed with you - HAHA
You probably made his day. Yes we can tell when its breasts against us, bras have pads vs your skin, or something else touching us.
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Asker+1 yThis bra didn't have any padding.
Asker+1 yI dont recall if they were hard - I think they may have got that way after it dragged across his back - LOL. Yeah was embarresed at first but can laugh about it now.
Asker+1 yLOL - I think it is because we wouldn't be quite so happy to have a random penis shoved onto us... so we put ourselves in what we think guys will be the same. Maybe if us girls could get into a guys mind a whole lot more then there would be a whole lot more random boobings going on... haha
Asker+1 y*we put ourselves in what we think is the guys shoes and think he will be the same
sorry totally stuffed that bit up...
Asker+1 yHa ha - dont think I's be game enough to do it on purpose... I can just see after I 'hit' the 5th poor unsuspecting male passenger in a row it might raise some suspicion LOL.
Asker+1 yHahahaha... thanks for your comments!
+1 yYou mean a boob "graze" yeah he knew if was your boobs.
He probably thought you did it on purpose too.012 Reply
Asker+1 yActually I was kinda side on so it was just one boob. Yes I mean a boob graze - typo - more than one what can I say but it's been a long day...
Seriously, he'd think it was on purpose?- +1 y
It's irrational but if he was that young it would just be wishful thinking on his behalf.
At his age, even though you're 40 he wouldn't hesitate.
Asker+1 yWishful thinking? You mean hoping it was on purpose?
20 year olds like mature ladies?- +1 y
Yes hoping.. and yes! You two should've hooked up actually...
Asker+1 yLOL - thanks for your comments
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My pleasure. Good luck as a future cougar.
Asker+1 yLOL - thanks :-)
Asker+1 yReally, you young guys love cougars?
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I don't think he got your message. You have to put @and then his name if it's on someone else's comment.
But yes we do. If you're still looking the goods.
Shut up I'm still young lol
Asker+1 yYeah I forgot the tag... but it doesn't seem to work if I'm annonymous
Asker+1 yYounger than me!
+1 yIt probably made him rock hard. I'd love that to happen to me. And i love women in their 40's :)
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Asker+1 yHa ha - Thanks :-)
Would you be able to tell it was a boob that was on your back?- +1 y
Probably, why don't we meet and you can press your tits against me and I'll let you know :D
Asker+1 yLOL - next time you are down under...
+1 yOf course he knew it was your boob. How could he not? Lol
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Asker+1 yUm, was hoping he might not have noticed or thought it was another body part.
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Nope he WAS hoping it was your boob that grazed against him. That's why he smiled lol
Asker+1 yLol - actually he was smiling and then said "sorry"
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That doesn't mean he didn't like it. He knew your boob touched him. And an older women breasts graze? That's pretty awesome lol
Asker+1 yThe sorry was cute - like he didn't have anything to be sorry about?
It's funny because women probably wouldn't be so happy to have a random penis shoved on them, especially an older guy...- +1 y
Guys like boobs lol! Any kinda boob graze is always welcome. If it's w hot older woman, then it's like "SCORE!!" Lol
Sorry but it's true
The sorry was more a thing to be polite and subtly let you know he felt the boob graze
Asker+1 yLOL - I'm blushing
Thanks for your comments - they've been very helpful- +1 y
Lol don't pretend you didn't enjoy grazing your boob against a younger guy 😛
Asker+1 yLOL - what can I say but I think I chose well... Even if it was an accident
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Oh you naughty woman!!! I bet he thinks he's lucky too lol
Asker+1 yHahaha... It was actually an accident... somehow I was lucky it was a cute young guy.
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And he was thinking he was lucky a hot older woman grazed her breasts against him. Bey ta he went home and... well you know lol
Asker+1 ySeriously, a little boob graze is enough material for you guys to do that?
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If it's from a hot enough woman..., yes
Asker+1 yYeah well I don't know if he thought that.
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You can message me if you want but I'll guarantee you he did
Asker+1 yWell I'm not gonna see him again so let's just say he did ;-)
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There ya go! Now go enjoy thoughts of him ;)
Asker+1 yHaha thanks...
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yOh ya he could tell. And he would have gotten a little smile I'm sure. It's funny you can bump into people all day and not notice. But a boob you notice right away.
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Asker+1 yHaha - seriously, you guys have a built in "boob graze" alert system? He did smile at me...
Opinion Owner+1 yThere is nothing else like that feeling. Lol
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1390703-why-would-a-girl-give-me-her-number-then-not-respond
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Asker+1 yLol, thanks.
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This happened to me a lot 😐😐😐011 Reply- +1 y
Ohh so you do this on purpose... i see
m +1 y@SatanClaus Whaaaaat? NO! Never -.- 😒😒😒 It was accidetal
Unfortunstely, accidental grazes are bound to happen when you are standing in a crowded place 😫- +1 y
I was just pulling your leg ok
Asker+1 yI don't recall it happening to me before - I grew up in the country where there were now crowds.
Asker+1 yYeah, he seemed like a nice guy... He actually said sorry after he smiled
Asker+1 yYeah, I know! He didn't even do anything
He was nice looking too.
Asker+1 yNo it takes a bit more for me to have a crush...
I would love it if that happens to me too... Probably I should get really hard... He definitely enjoyed it..😘
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Asker+1 ySo he would've noticed and known it was a boob?
Asker+1 yLOL - now I'm embarrassed...
Would you seriously get hard from that?
Asker+1 yYeah they're pretty big (DD).
Asker+1 yLOL - thanks.
+1 yOh, boob grazed... OK. I get it now. I thought you had eyes or some sort of camera apparatus, or something.
And I found that rather creepy.03 Reply
Asker+1 yI think most people realised its a typo - I wrote it on my phone...
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Ok, well, when I first read the sentence, 'As I walked past this guy I accidentally boob gazed his back.'
I was just trying to figure out how that would be anatomically possible. Lol :-p
Asker+1 yYeah, fair enough.
Yep, he knew... guys are very body conscious... of their own and others
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Asker+1 yHaha - thanks for your comment -I'm pretty convinced now that he must have known. No longer in denial
Asker+1 yIt seems like most of the guys on here (from all age groups) would have liked it
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Guys are guys, hey... if a good looking girl was to graze their body against mine, what's not to like. Especially on a train or other public place, the physical sensation would have been heightened somewhat because in those crowded places our personal space diminishes... I had a similar incident and I was at the end of the train, everyone was standing packed in, I had a heavy bag in one hand and I was hanging onto a rail with the other. A young lady was right up against me and it was so awkward by she took it in good spirits, knowing that nothing could be done about it. A strange mix of pleasant but awkward...
Asker+1 yYes awkward but nothing you can do...
Asker+1 yYes I imagine that would be embarressing - when we get turned on it isn't really all that visible.
Asker+1 yYeah I find it a bit slack doing that to guys - I dont do it. I would guess its something most guys wouldn't like.
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+1 yIt's pretty easy to tell when a girl's boobs are rubbing up against you than other body parts.
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I kinda doubt this lol I'd mistake it for someone a arm or maybe booty as they try to wiggle by lol
Asker+1 yI was gonna ask how he would know it's a boob and not another body part... but then I guess the only other two things that soft are a stomach and a bum - which would be much lower (especially in my case as I am tall).
+1 yI'm sure he knew it was a boob, and chances are he liked it.
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Asker+1 yThanks for your comment :-)
... it seems to be what everyone thinks!- +1 y
You're welcome. There's always a chance of it being the compete opposite, but that's EXTREMELY rare.
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I gotta admit that since I hardly get much affection, I would wish someone would do that to me - even if it's accidental.
Asker+1 yComplete opposite - that he didn't know? Or that he didn't like it?
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Either.
+1 yYou probably just supplied him some good masturbation material lol
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Asker+1 yLOL - yeah sounds like it, especially going by what all the guys above have said
8.5K opinions shared on Other topic. Yeah he felt it ;) he finds you attractive. I am a guy I would know
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Asker+1 yThanks for your comment - how can you assume he found me attractive? (He had very little choice i the matter)
Asker+1 yLOL - yes he did do that, but then he looked away and said sorry.
Asker+1 yHa ha - that makes sense. Can't believe how many guys your age here say 40 year olds are hot...
Asker+1 yYes that would be good to achieve that. I've started with a Personal Trainer recently so hopefully he will help me recapture my youth (I haven't really worked out much for a while)
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYou gotta believe noone but us guys especially of the same age
He knew exactly what it was..
And it happens to me as well04 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yI mean boobs grazed on like side or back...
Asker+1 yYeah that's why I asked on here - Don't know many guys your age to ask
What do you think when it happens to you?
Opinion Owner+1 yTbh enough
Enjoy it :p
But now it's kinda normal...
Asker+1 yCool - thanks for your comments
he knew. he's probably still telling people how awesome it was to.
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Asker+1 yHAHAHA - I guess I'm on here chatting about it... Thanks for your comment :-)
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHe probably didn't think much of it. He didn't really feel your boob. He felt your shirt, which had a bra underneath it.
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Asker+1 yYes that's what I thought - that makes me feel a whole lot better :-)
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI have yet to feel a boob "gaze" :D
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Asker+1 yTry a crowded train - haha
Opinion Owner+1 yHa the word is grazed :S sorry I couldn't help but notice the grammar. To answer your question unless you have a severe uniboob or are flat chested he felt it and probably enjoyed it yes :)
Asker+1 yNo, they are well and truly two separate things although only one touched him as I was at 45 degrees to him.
No they are not small (DD).
Yes Someone else pointed out the typo that I made twice - they don't have eyes so they can't gaze!
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+1 yI'm 99,99 % sure that he knew it was a boob feel
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Asker+1 yLol -thanks. That leaves very little chance that he didn't know?
So you would still consider that a boob feel?- +1 y
It has happened me before many times and I understood it all of the times
Asker+1 yLOL - you are quite young to have had so many boob grazes - do you just hang out with a lot of women?
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I don't need to hang out with a lot of women, I just take the bus or subway :)
Asker+1 yLOL - fair enough I guess that's where this happened too... I grew up in the country so no crowds...
he knew that.. but don't know for the feeling
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Asker+1 yYeah I think it is obvious he knew... sounds like guys have a boob sensor (detects boob touches however light)
Depends on their size
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Asker+1 yThey are pretty big - DD
Asker+1 yWell it made the trip a little more eventful than usual...
Asker+1 yI was embarressed about it but now its funny.
+1 yLike a marshmallow... :D I m sure... :D
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Asker+1 ySo you'd feel a big marshmellow on your back?
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Yes if I m not wearing a thicker jacket, I can feel it's fluffiness... :D
Asker+1 yLol - yeah he was just in a T-shirt (tighter fitting)
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Lol yes that's why he was smiling...
:D
Asker+1 yLOL - well it's nice to know I made someone smile.
He was smiling and then said "sorry" even though he didn't do anything.- +1 y
Hmmm so you enjoy it too... :D
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI would get a hard on and masturbate after.
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Asker+1 yHaha - really? That much of a turn on?
Opinion Owner+1 yYeah lol. I would purposely not move so that I can feel everything :P
Asker+1 yoh dear, I think he might have done that! He didn't make it easy for me to get past... LOL
Opinion Owner+1 yLOL that genius. He probably did that on purpose hahah
Asker+1 yLOL -cheeky boy! Thanks your response - it was very helpful!!
Opinion Owner+1 yLol thanks, and welcome!
I would like to meet someone new
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Asker+1 yHAHAHAHA - well this is one way to break the ice...
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+1 yThat lucky basted
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Asker+1 yLOL - so you think he definitely knew what it was?
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Obviously
Asker+1 yOh, it'is that obvious... I don't recall being "boobed" at any time.
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We guys can feel it
Asker+1 yLOL - that seems to be the consensus!
Thanks for your comments :-)- +1 y
Anytime
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+1 yhe probably liked it
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Asker+1 yGoing by what all the guys have said - it does sound that way - lol!
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