This question is for Muslims. If you're not a Muslim that's okay, but it's just best that you don't answer. So if men get the Hoor Al- 'Ayn then what do women get? The hadiths that state that the women of the world will be more beautiful than them are very weak. So that means that they will most likely be way prettier than us. I'm so so so jealous. I don't want to pray, fast, do anything religious anymore. I think that if rather be in hell. I don't usually get jealous of other girls then why am I jealous of women that I haven't seen?
Most Helpful Guy
Assalamualaikum, I get where you're coming from but remember we've been told only a minuscule amount of the hereafter. From a hadith (I think in Tabrani not fully certain if it's exactly from there though and I'd need time to find it again if you want an exact quote and source) we know that the believing women will be far greater than the hoor al ayns and have superiority over them in every sense. We also know that in jannah you will get everything you desire and more and that everything gets better and more the longer you're there. Plus you'll get to see Allah (SWT) Inshallah and come on isn't that the thing everyone wants even if they don't believe they go well show me God, why can't I see Him if He's there etc.
I'm honestly not the best to answer this and my answer doesn't do your q nor does it do the Islamic answer to it any real justice, it's just my attempt at trying to answer and help. Remember, the promise of Allah (SWT) is that those who enter jannah will get everything their hearts want and more so don't fret. A promise from me or someone else is just words, not even worth the paper that the words are written on but a promise from God is a guarantee that you'll get it.
And don't say you'd rather be in hell, Inshallah we don't see a moment of hell.1
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Most Helpful Girl
You haven't even seen Hell and you want to be in it. Pray your wish doesn't come true cause that is one place you don't ever wanna be in. Our Prophet SalAllahu Alayhi Wasalam dedicated his whole existence praying for our welfare. The only thing he wanted was for us to go to Heaven and live there eternally. And you're rejecting everything he's done for you just cause of a paltry emotion you are feeling.
Biologically speaking men have a higher need for sex. Us women don't think about it much but they do a lot. Hence the Hoors are for them. The 40 Hoor thing is for martyrs I think.
But Allah has given us a lot in this life Alhamdulillah and will give us much more than we can ever imagine in the Afterlife. Its a known fact that women love jewellery etc so we will have unimaginable jewels to wear in Heaven. And we will also have handsome male servants at our beck and call. So we also are given a lot but based on our needs.
And from what I heard the Muslim women of this world would be much prettier than the Hoors because they chose to do ibaadat of Allah. They did it willingly and their husband wills have eyes only for them because of that. Something along those lines I once read on Instagram.2
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