How do I win an argument with a girl?

[Anonymous]

Any tips for winning an argument with a girl

[pavlove]

This is my favorite question in a while. Ok let's get into it.

1) If you try to go tit for tat exchanging insults she will do this genius girl mechanism whereby they start laughing at anything and everything you say in order to make you madder and make it seem like they don't care. Your instinct is to say something so horrible that they stop laughing don't do this. Say I don't put up with girls like you who do this laughing bit. Girls can't stand to be like other girls so she will stop laughing. Also, she will respond well to your checking her.

2) off this, men need to remain frustratingly stoic. we can't win at the verbal spar.

3) if you make her cry you can go in for the apology hug and not lose face.

4) if she starts screaming that's the perfect time to walk away and not a second sooner. You want her to leave the argument feeling like the crazed emotional woman.

5) Never say sorry. It will just make her feel worse (not sure the logic behind it.)

6) Now here's the last maybe most important thing... not caring what a hurt woman has to say or about her feelings is possibly the most devastating thing you can do to her. As such, she will probably pull out the big guns and say something to really tear into you emotionally. it's very important that you disregard this last hail mary power move. trust me it's entirely faked.

good luck out there

[Dipsy]

You can't win an argument with a girl. Well actually you can, but mostly they'll never admit you're right and THEY'RE wrong. They don't want to be proven wrong.

Perhaps a confidence/self-esteem issue or a lack of something (lack of happiness?). When you're not feeling alright (low self-esteem) you feel the need to verify yourself that you are worth something, and thus by 'showing' the other's that you're 'right' (while that doesn't have to be the case at all).
Note: not all women (and/or men) are like that lol.

The best way to win an argument with a girl/woman, would be to walk away in the middle when she says something. You deny her the chance to build her ego. Don't feed the ego. She will wonder what she did wrong, and know she went too far.

Good luck :)

[pdxgirl]

Make sure you are 100% right about the situation, if there is any possibility that you are wrong she will win. Also make sure you know facts about what you are arguing about, not speculation. And know when to stop. Only argue until you've made your point and then stop, even if she keeps arguing. If you're right then there's nothing more to say anyways lol

[BlueSJ]

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You just don't. If you win,
this means things will get worse. xD

Best thing is to smile and let her fight with herself. She would get really angry, yet has no reason to vent it on you. ;P

[BlueSJ]

Oh here is the image again
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[Dipsy]

Lol. I can somehow imagine such a situation.. lol. Why do they jump to conclusions so fast if I may ask?
And another question if you don't mind:
Like for example, when she says: "Why? Do you think I'm fat?" and when you say: "Sorry to say, but yes." why does she get annoyed/sad about that, while she knows it already herself? And the man just wants to help her lose fat.

[BlueSJ]

@Dipsy Sometimes I, myself, get confused by some girls' behavior. When a girl asks you, "am I fat?" and in her mind she feels she is, realize that is a very dangerous question; try to avoid the question by all means if you want to save your life because both a "yes" and a "no" answer will send you to the moon LoL. xD

Some girls have some insecurities that always seem to be on their mind, so when someone reminds them of these insecurities, especially if it was a guy, and for that matter their S. O., they tend to overthink it and take it personally lol.

"why does she get annoyed/sad about that, while she knows it already herself?"
I assume, yes, she knows the reality very well, so she doesn't need any reminder. She needs someone who reassures her. In her mind, she assumes that he will always compliment her since he loves her. Some girls actually respond to the compliments positively and take them as a motivation to work harder on themselves while others just take it at face value.

[Dipsy]

Ah ok XD

I still find it a kind of weird. I know they want/like reassurance, but when i ask such a question, i want the truth and not a lie, cuz the truth can get you further, but a lie can't.

Complementing people is not always a sign of loving them, although it looks like it. Telling the truth is actually helping them. Cuz if you keep complimenting a 'lie', she will not change her mind about the fact that she's fat, she will only do that when she sees the results for herself, and thus you can better tell the truth in a positive manner. But thats really hard and most likely she'll get hurt.. :( dilemma lol

[BlueSJ]

@Dipsy what you are saying is true, and that is how it is supposed to be, but you never know; some girls are sensitive to some issues. They especially don't want to hear the guy they like saying or hinting they are not good looking.

You can see it even here on GaG; some girls ask a "how do I look?" question and then downvote all people who say they are not attractive/cute. However, you notice some other girls who still take others' opinions and kindly accept them and work on themselves.

For me I prefer to be told the truth. All my friends know that when I ask for their opinion about something I did or something about me, I want them to be as honest as possible.

[Dipsy]

Ah ok haha, that's good! :) You're less sensitive to such things, good trait.

Yes those girls who downvote negative opinions are attention seekers i think, or to boost their ego.

Yes I can understand girls not wanting to hear they're fat from the guy they fancy, but it can be for the best :P

[Anonymous]

If you're fighting with her and she hits you... simply grasp her wrists (not rough) and pin her against the wall. Look her deep in the eyes then lean in and kiss her slowly and boom. You win.

[Asker]

Oh god I'm going to jail 😂

[Opinion Owner]

haha why's that?

[jc1982]

no better than kissing her dont kiss her but get extremely close and stop she goes to move into it pull away :P

[BlueSJ]

@jc1982 LoL I guarantee that is a killer xD

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

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[Maxemeister]

Lol I love these images

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

@Maxemeister xD

[83yeah]

True story!

[Applefan1]

Lol I have actually won arguments with girls. I know how women think very well so know what to say to back them into a corner very often. LOL I don't do that all the time but I have done it in the past.

[AskButterfly]

Well, girls are tough but gentle on the inside...
you can never win because a girl is always right but communication is key.
Tell them how you feel about the situation, tell them that you think they are undermining what you think, and you'd appreciate if they'd listen to you. If it becomes and argument again.. well... O. O

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

The same way you win an argument with a man. You have the facts and evidence and phrase them well, while avoiding laying blame or judgement... unless its an irational individual who blieves in some sort of cause at which point you might as well just give up... Side note: Women think like fanatics supporting a cause when the subject is a relationship they care about.

[Chief16]

Depends, if you're right. She's bound to know. Girls seem to instinctively know what's right and what's not. If you are, she's bound to realise sooner or later. So... Swallow your pride and let her have her way, she'll come around. I swear. And its cool, you let nature do your work for you. However if you're wrong. Boy... There are fewer mortifying things I can think of.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Simple; BE RIGHT, stay on point, and don't lose your cool.

[Riverock]

"BE RIGHT"

Like that helps! :P

[RJGraveyTrain]

It does, because if you're right and you can stay on that point and remain calm, she'll eventually either storm out, cry, or admit defeat.

[Anonymous]

Just like men need sex, women need physical affection. If a woman witholds sex from you, withold physical affection. I guarentee she will break first... why? You can masturbate, but she can't cuddle and kiss herself.

You can use this not only to combat sex withdrawal, but also to win arguments 😉

[Grace_Rdz]

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Congrats!

[skullly]

Tip~toe towards the nearest exit and leave very quietly... Leave her arguing alone 😁 and you win!! 😁... Cause she'll be super pissed off when she realizes no one is even listening 😁😁😁
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[83yeah]

Best answer yet!!

[shikyoon]

Give up, you can't.

No lol jk. Good arguments, Give an counterargument for every argument she throws. Google some facts, etc.

If this does not help, you can win by complementing her, flirting, distracting her. and then bwam, solid arguments.

[skaterkid123]

Use her own flawed logic against her:

Make your point short and sweet

She puts the blame on you

talk about a similar situation she's done the same

Ex:

Why do you leave the toilet seat up?"
I say " first time I ever done it you forgot the 600 other times that I did , besides it takes lesss effort to put the seat down that to walk here and argue about it, peace son " and I just go out win for me ohh yaasss

[ConfusedShyGirl]

... become a woman xD no on a serious note, arguments should only lead to fixing a current a problem, it's shouldn't be a about being right or wrong. If you are surrounded by mature girls they will admit when they are in the wrong anyway

[Anonymous]

Don't fucking argue with a woman. All women are bitches. You're only harming yourself. It doesn't matter what women think anyway... their intelligence holds little weight.

Feminists lie that women are equal and the same thing as men. The truth is that women are different in both mind and body

[Nuqood]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRLvZwEoFgo

Here you go.

[WhereAmI]

I found a graph of your chances...

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[artist3363]

Don't piss her off, which is something you probably already did since you're arguing with her.

[Mistnigqa808]

All I do is LAUGH in their FACE/s + troll them to the point where they get mad and eventually shut-up HAHAHAHAHA #WorksEverytime

[Mistnigqa808]

arguing with a girl is retarded cuz you'll never win... so why not just piss her off via laughing at her? At least that way you get something out of the deal, right? <3

[jc1982]

stop arguing they are right even if they know they are wrong and admit their wrong they are still right :P

[HandsomeRaj]

Just say 'YOU ARE CORRECT / RIGHT' and you've won ;)

[Bluemax]

Be right.

If you are loosing arguments, perhaps it is you who should reconsider.

[Nik1hil]

You cannot, yes you can find the limit of this universe but you cannot win an argument against women. Especially if you are man

[DBAOracle]

Trust me, you don't want to be doing that. If you win the argument, she'll kick your ass in another area. Might as well just let her have the win for the argument, it's not worth the effort.