How Can You Fix a Huge Argument with Your Girlfriend & Prevent Future Fights?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

It depends on what the argument Is about. Some things can’t be fixed once that trust and bridge is broken it’s just broken. Cheating is one of those things as well as abuse as well as saying certain things.

Accountability is one thing as well that has to work both ways. You need to own it when you do something wrong and she needs to own her end of things as well. If it seems one person or the other is accepting responsibility even for things outside their control it’s not a good sign of things.

Some relationships are meant for a season and others for a lifetime. I cannot tell you what one relationship or another is. But communication will solve many fights. Maybe some issues cannot be worked through and people can split on good terms or maybe it’s worked through and becomes stronger.

[Miristheiss]

Fights are normal.

Here are the basics.

ALWAYS be respectful when you have disagreements. If someone starts calling names and becoming disrespectful just because they get mad and then want to take all back later, that is a huge red flag for them being a good long term fit.

Respect boundaries. If the argument is because 1 party is disrespecting the others boundaries then you two probably just aren't a good fit.

If you have different opinions on a topic, having a respectful but tense, hard discussion is normal. That is how you work stuff out.

[DishLady]

There's no guarantee that fixing ONE argument will prevent future arguments.

Oftentimes arguments are just a way of getting to know the other person's limits and restrictions. It's the same for all relationships, not just the romantic ones.

Think of it this way... since you were a kid... you argue with your parents. Why? They've set a limit that isn't ok for you... or you've pushed a limit that wasn't ok for them, right? Ok, same goes with friendships... then increasingly more intense relationships.

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[Zack-Bann]

First: you subdue her
Second: tie her to the bed
Third: set the house on fire
It’s what worked for others


No but seriously there’s no way to prevent arguments
What’s important is to keep your priorities in order
Ensure that even if you’re fighting it’s from a place of love
If a woman knows she’s safe and protected even when you guys aren’t talking she’s not gonna be compelled to leave because you didn’t take out the trash or fold laundry

[IslaTheWitch]

present your perspectives, understand your motivations, respect boundaries, repeat

[RingOfFire]

There is absolutely no way to proactively fix an argument with a woman, you just have to wait until a different time of the month and it will evaporate automatically.

[GAGsucksballs89170]

Pick your battles.

If you fight about EVERYTHING, you'll just alienate your partner. But if you never fight at all, you'll look weak, and she wants a guy she knows will protect her. Pick your battles

[rosemilk]

communicate. and then get better at communicating on a daily basis.

[lorenzomichael]

Just tell her you’re sorry and let it go. Whatever the fuck it was just let it go and then in the future, don’t let her drag you into a conversation that might turn into an argument.

[rebelkid]

Remove ALL ego and the negative voices in your head. Put away your pride and step up to the plate as a respectful adult and watch the UNIVERSE work it’s magic to expose the resolve of your relationship

[Drumlin2001]

Any background? How long have you known each other? Been together? What was fight about?

[orange_roach]

If you have to come here and ask random strangers, then what the hell are you doing in a relationship? That’s the better question.

[Valdemort]

You. Have. To. Communicate. Openly. Omfg.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

By leaving her.

[Elena85]

Simple one has to establish dominance.

[itsannalee]

Listen to her

[Godihateyou]

Get a new one.