How do you handle an argument/fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend?

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Gommers · Accepted Answer

He who hits hardest is loudest. One punch to the face each. Rules of hit: You have one week to prepare, no shirts, no shoes, no protective padding, no hits to the nose, no hits to the mouth, ear shots are okay but fucking lame, only truly correct hit is one to the jaw or cheek bone anything else is a cheapshot and will have a point deduction attached to it in regards to if the female was hitting the male. If one of you shuts up and takes the other to dinner, this is also an acceptable truce to the argument and no further discussion, at any point, will this argument come up again, EVER.

Frost_Byt3 · Accepted Answer

Most of the time i will just ignore her until she gets over it, and comes crawling back to me. But if i realize that i was the one in the wrong, i apologize, and give her my best puppy dog eyes until she can't resist me. 😉

HookingSwan · Accepted Answer

hehehehe

I handle it by not fighting, but discussing calmly and respectfuly, trying to see all the sides involved in the matter, in order to find a way to solve things and quickly forgive or be forgiven :)

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

It depends. I always insist that we talk and listen to each other. But if someone is straight up yelling at me or trying to just instigate shit, then I will walk away and refuse to fight.

Shamiexo95 · Accepted Answer

i tend to say things i don't mean when I'm I'm upset/angry so i'd usually give him the silent treatment, wait till i cool down and then start talking to him calmly, properly.

Mistnigqa808 · Answer

Umm "you know you can get the fuck out, right? / be replaced at the snap of a finger" #DONE   #ImSorry but I'm not arguing with any skank who probably isn't worth it anyway.

NourSy · Answer

I highly recommend u to read a book called What you feel you can heal for Dr. Jhon
it gives u a pure knowledge of how to understand urself & ur partner
it basically revolves around the idea that we have to show negative feelings in addition to positive feelings and don't hide them not to burst like a bomb and ruin everything in the end of the road..
u gonna love it

justbanANNAz · Answer

depending on his character, ill either talk it over or leave him to cool off until we reach the point where we're making out again.

gobsmacked3 · Answer

I could never yell at any one, let alone a woman. But in any disagreement, I just actively listen, respond and try to find a resolution, or at the least middle ground

Phoenix98 · Answer

Calmly, logically and without raising my voice, if it can be helped, generally I'll leave after a certain point. And walk for several miles or until I feel I've cooled off.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Give the silent treatment, walk away into another room, call the police worst come to it

JamielovesKU · Answer

I handle it by not starting one it the first place. I change the subject if one does occur

Marinepilot · Answer

I just move on. But I promise you, I will have the last word. First, last and always !

Anonymous · Answer

they get really bad sometimes but half hour later we realize how idiotic it was, forget about it, and make it up to each other

KidanisCortes · Answer

tell them to fuck off and that I'm right duh

blondfrog · Answer

Just walk away until they cool off

LordZero · Answer

I never had a girlfriend. Girls are too scary.

Anonymous · Answer

im the peacemaker.

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