Always torn between "if it's meant to be, it will be" or "if you want it, go get it" ?

Anonymous
Which one do you follow? What If you go to get it and it doesn't happen how you want it to? then it's not meant to be. If it's meant to be it will happen anyway? But surely you'd have to do something it won't just come to you.(crush wise)
Always torn between "if it's meant to be, it will be" or "if you want it, go get it" ?
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