How do you know when a girl is a keeper ✅ ?

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Like someone you would want to marry. Like you wouldn't trade her for no one else. Jw. #QueenApple24

Avenuewriter · Accepted Answer

I have two instances where I'd consider someone a keeper.

First instance: I do something, make some sort of mistake, or get into some sort of trouble and instead of being outraged or disappointed, she's got my back even though it's not her problem. (Note that this mistake isn't me wronging her in some way. More like, I get into some sort of fight or some nut tries to cause me trouble and she's there for me when I wouldn't have expected her to be).

Second: She invites me over to her place for the first time for a movie night. I prepare myself for a night of Nicholas Sparks movies and having to hold my critical tongue because, hey this is a girl who wants to spend an evening with me I'm not gonna say no to that. Then, when I get there, I find that her movie collection is exactly like my own (I'm a film buff and movie critic, movies are kinda my life, so they're more important to me than they are for most people).

I don't believe in marriage, but I'd certainly want to hold tight to a girl like that.

Phoenix98 · Accepted Answer

O it's not any one reason but a lot of different reason.

Looking into the future and you see her in it with you.

You feel she's the one.

She accepts you for you who are puts up with you, weirdness, flaws and all your odd little things, look past the differences between herself and yourself no matter how numerous or small and when you can look at her and accept/see the same.

You just feel that connection, she compliments you and you feel comfortable around her, and just got that feeling.

And you just enjoy spending time with her, whether it's hanging out, doing some fun or just talking and when you do these things time just seems to cease and it's like your in your own little time zone.

Just to name a few things, stuff like that lol.

MissPanda · Accepted Answer

When she's controlling, men like a woman in charge.

When she's jealous, men love a woman to show she cares by letting the little green monster escape.

When she yells and screams at him, men love a woman who can remind them of their mother when they were a child. *le sigh* sweet childhood memories.

When she nags, men love a women who can be that lovely little endless high pitch reminder in their ear. Oh how sweet of her they will think !

When she doesn't allow him to hang out with his friends, men love a women who never wants to leave their side... ever!

If she's got all these he's for sure going to lock that shit down and put a ring on it. 💍

mimmy · Accepted Answer

Um well she will tell you she loves you more than anyone else would. Send quotes of cute things she dreams of you two actually doing or to say to each other. All this I say to my boyfriend and he said I'm a keeper and he never wants to lose me. Another thing is that she will probably talk about getting married or about your future with her.

RBD12 · Accepted Answer

when a man is ready... that's when you know he wants a keeper---if that makes sense... You can be ALL to a man, if he's not ready he will still be a DOG. lol

oldanddecrepid · Answer

She is a keeper when you can honestly think to yourself that you have never met anyone quite like her, and that you would be sincerely hurt to see anything happen to her that would make her unhappy.

Ziconic · Answer

You just have "that feeling" you know? I'm not the dating type, so it's really hard for me to actually get feelings. Like most of the girls I've liked in the past, I didn't know, and never tried to talk to. Because if I did, I would probably lose interest. It's weird. But I assume something will just click in your brain and you'll want to be with that one person, and be fine with it. That's how I think it would feel.

Jbbhaze449 · Answer

When you're willing to bet half your estate that you'll never stop appreciating her. Marriage sounds like an oxymoron almost to me. Making this promise to your sweety that if you break up you'll be financially burdened; into a romantic gesture.

"Baby if the day comes that we break up you'll know it's because I'd rather live as a much poorer man than suffer another day with you." Most romantic thing ever.

joeb73 · Answer

when the person has the same hopes and dreams as you do and is willing to work to achieve thous dreams. some one who will pick you up when your down and allow you to help them when they are down. some one who will walk by your side but also knows when to lead and when to fallow ( everyone has strengths and weaknesses in life ). the biggest way to know is when they love you and care for you as much as you do them.

ThewhoIsMe · Answer

1. She loves Anime, one piece and her OTP is LuffyxNami.
2. Preferably a virgin like myself.
3. LOVES sex and wants to try the freaky stuff that I like.
4. She's ALWAYS loyal and never even thinks about sex with another guy.
5. She's always madly in love with me.
6. She forces me to go out and do things.
7. Loves playing video games.
8. Wants to have kids.
9. Loves to cuddle. Sits in my lap, lays on my chest, stuff like that.
10. Loves classic rock and oldies. Some other music here and there.
11. likes to shoot guns and going out doors.
12. Believes and worships God. (Christianity).

RedAmulet · Answer

When she can join forces with my mum to take the piss out of me 😂

Oladeji12 · Answer

when she agrees to this

blondfrog · Answer

When she isn't manipulative, doesn't constantly text you, doesn't want superficial things from you externally and materialistically, Isn't verbally abusive, doesn't swear at you, doesn't physically abuse, you, and doesn't try to change who you are. If you are all these things then that's all you have to do to make me happy. I am s simple guy.

Loveherbut · Answer

Nothing i never met a woman who is a keeper they just fucked up everytime. Marrying feeling i had it once i met this girl and felt like i want to marry her which was stupid it was the first meeting she felt a connection with me too, she felt responsible to help and to care about me even thought we were only working together, but then found out that im competing with a guy for her so i backed off, i dont like to be a second choice even for her.

adamski24 · Answer

maybe this

Noxifer626 · Answer

When things just... work out, you know?
Maybe a fight, or two, or three or more. But in the end it's just silly fights, not something bad.
When you just... click together and it works. And it feels like something is missing when you don't see her for more than a few hours.

TripleAce · Answer

When you're on vacation and suppose to be having a blast but you still feel like something is missing here with you. That moment right there

... and when she makes Chicken wings and pulled pork on boys night

Hans222 · Answer

When I feel at ease with her. When I like to come home and see her, take care of her,...
Of course it takes time to be certain. I hope that one day I will meet a single girl I have that feeling with :D

TMWLOP · Answer

i dont know, the best kinda person is honestly someone i can just relax with an be myself an make them laugh or mad or anything, just someone whos a really good friend, thats the person id marry an never let go of -3-

Girl_Scout · Answer

When you get that special feeling, the kind that makes you want to convert your basement into a secret apartment and keep her there...  "She's a keeper!"

karahiri · Answer

1. hot 2. willing to maintain hotness 3. not annoying 4. not embarrassing i think most dudes would think a girl with 1-4 is a keeper.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

When I am happy to see her every day and there are no doubts about her in my mind. The possibility of something not working out would not even come to mind when thinking about her.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

if she put up with all my shit, and still wants more.

Sexualchrist · Answer

When I know we both want to make time for each other, our feelings are mutual, we never run out of things we want to talk about but at the same time are comfortable in silence

Mesonfielde · Answer

- Likeable - Attractive - Doesn't want to maul my eyes out after hanging out with her for an extended period of time

RobAtomic · Answer

lol... that's a trick question huh... seriously, how I know is I like her and feel comfortable around her and she doesn't steal my car...

Yeahhbro · Answer

Because she is like my best friend and I will know she will always be there no matter what and well I am attracted to her physically too.

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

When I'm showing flaws of myself, and yet she sticks around :) When I'm feeling in trouble and she doesn't mind listening to my problems When she trusts me

Shay1994 · Answer

Whoa, hey Carmen, first time seeing your face :D... You look bootyful XD lol. Also, in answer to your question, I would consider a keeper to be a woman, who is like my best friend and lover rolled into one :D.

NotTheFBI · Answer

If she can make me laugh, not afraid to speak her mind, NOT A CHEATER, honest and keeps it real she's a keeper no doubt I'll be marrying her.

meatballs21 · Answer

When she makes me so happy I can't imagine life without her.

NYkid27 · Answer

If spending time with her makes me happy and she's kind and loyal then she's a keeper to me

Jaden69 · Answer

When she does this, and looks like this

DizzyAster · Answer

-She has the same likes and dislikes as I do, most of them anyway, -challenges me to be a better person,  -and sexes me the way I like.

TheAngryBanana · Answer

if she can support youand life you up instead of beaing a eight and dragging you down and sucking up all your dam time happiness and energey :)

cjmtherfcker · Answer

Once she gives me the impression she would be 100% loyal to me

TonyRyan · Answer

If, despite all flaws, she accepts you and STILL sticks around, she's a keeper.

HentaiMaster23 · Answer

if you love the person, and they have similar interests

Toad-1 · Answer

When she's comfortable enough to let a fart slip ;)

JCT666 · Answer

If we have so many things in common and that I can be myself around her.

JamesDylan1990 · Answer

When she loves me and gets along with my family. Never made it that far lol

Cody3180 · Answer

When the person you're with is you

Dina0594 · Answer

When a girl supports a man's dreams and he feels like she's there for him. Guys like girls who get along with their family and friends.

Blue2 · Answer

when you fuck up for something minor but then the way she reacts to it. If she blows it out of proportion then thats when you know.

Doffydood · Answer

When burping is a competition, not disgusting :P

dogbert444 · Answer

When I saw your profile pic...

ElizabethBiersack · Answer

When the girl is me 😂😂

matheus_mb · Answer

When I find her I'll find out...

RaggaMon · Answer

She has a massive inheritance!

archiz · Answer

just look at me doll and y'all know xD

jman46241 · Answer

I'll let you know when/if I meet her..

PizzaGuy22 · Answer

If I like her physically and emotionally

WhyNotAsk · Answer

When she fits in with any scenario/event.

93stepsawayfromhome · Answer

When she starts changing me for the better.

francheska1423 · Answer

when trust each other with no secrets :))

happymike16 · Answer

When they wear your t shirts

Bball8 · Answer

When they don't play games.

truthhammer · Answer

that warm feeling they give off.

idkwtftoputhere · Answer

gives good head?

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

She emulates me.

james_mark · Answer

Hard question lol

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