Why don't boyfriends let us see their cell phones?

[MiaChan]

OK by that I'm not saying that its good to snoop around your bf's cellphone because obviously I as a girl won't like it if my boyfriend snoops around mine but this kinda behavior of not letting one even touch your phone seems more suspicious, I knew a guy and he was just totally cool with it even though he didn't see my cell but he was fine with me checking out his, his cell would be lying around beeping and stuff and he would be totally nonchalant like he's got nothing to hide so I never bothered checking it again because it seems rude & I wasn't even checking it I was just taking a pic of myself with it so that he could keep but I know my other friend's boyfriend who always fights with her even if she comes close to his cell, that's like arousing unnecessary suspicion, so people what's up with that? y do guys do this

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FYI people I don't snoop in other ppl's cell phones especially boyfriend's I'm just giving an example, and even if I would, I would always ask first first which I did ,

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And girls only wanna know what's in the cell if the guys is too secretive about it, and guys would also do the same if their girlfriends wouldn't let them touch it

[ArizonaRX]

Here's an example of my experience with snooping through a girlfriends cellphone.

I was dating a girl for about a year, we lived together. She had a past, before me, where I knew she cheat on her ex boyfriend, with her ex ex boyfriend. So, a year goes by and I never once looked through her cell. One night she had went to bed early and her cell was sitting charging on my hallway table. I just happened to walk by and the lights were flashing on it that she had just received a text. So I went over, and hit a button to open the text to make it stop flashing and low and behold it was a text from her ex ex boyfriend. Very interesting text at that, revealing some pretty horrible things. So I took the phone into the bathroom and went through it with a fine tooth comb. Ended up finding out that she had been cheating on my extensively for almost the whole year we were together. I woke her up, kick her out of my apartment. Next day I check myself into a clinic and got tested for STD's, thankfully I was clean.

So sometimes snooping can uncover valuable information.

[MiaChan]

Yea exactly, that's what I'm talking about, you're so right!!! I would also do the same if I were in your place, but I'm not endorsing snooping through cellphones, which some people over here are assuming Iol but yeah it definitely helps at times to know what's up

[PicklesMr]

I've had a similar situation too. I don't like when she does so... I just installed a keylogger on his phone which I got
in order to discover what is the cause of such a weird behaviour. It helped me a lot, maybe you should do such a thing too :)

[Ephram]

Because... it's where we keep our porn.

Or maybe we have naughty pictures of ourselves in there.

Or our ex-girlfriends... :'D

NAW! I'm just kidding. xP I don't know why, I guess... the main reason would be because of the text messages. They don't want you to know what they talk about with certain people, I guess? That's the only reason I can imagine. I know it might be suspicious, but it could just be nothing. It doesn't necessarily have to mean what you think it means (whatever that may be).

As for me, I wouldn't mind if girls went through my phone. I have nothing to hide on my phone! Wanna go through my phone? It's pretty nice...

[LEWnB]

Lolololololololol

[MiaChan]

Lol ok cool I don't mind people going through my phone either (except for little cousins because they break and screw things up) I just don't like it if they do it behind my back,

[MiaChan]

Lmao

[Ephram]

Yeah, that goes for anything, though. If it doesn't belong to them, they better freakin' ask before they touch! ;( Or I'm gonna bite their heads off!!!

Or... at least try. :/ Heads are pretty big.

[DOLLYMAI123]

Is this seriously what this websites about? Which is fine by the way but why do have to join a website that actually is about one thing? I mean if ur boyfriend WILL NOT let u go down his fone even though he cab see u are upset etc then its not rocket science to Wrk out why... Especially if he never ever leaves it about and takes everywhere with him (even to the toilet) wtf what happened to women lol if he won't put ur mind at rest, there 2 reason why he won't 1. His cheatin 2. His selfish and enjoys the mind games! So either way f*** him off! Anyway ladies there one thing all women have got and it will tell us all we need to no and that is 'Women's Intuition' and if you smell a rat there usually Is one!

[LEWnB]

It's a privacy thing. I got p*ssed when my boyfriend went through my phone while I was sleeping, then told me to "get the f*** out of his house" because I was talking to an ex of mine. It was really annoying because there's a REASON he's my ex. But I don't go through his phone, whether he goes through mine or not, because if it rings, or he gets a txt, I'm allowed to look or answer it. I'd say it's just more of a privacy thing and he doesn't want you to take some txts the wrong way. Idk, guys are mysterious sometimes, lol =] =] =] As are women.

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of guys just don't want a girl to get pissed cause maybe it's OLD texts with his ex and they haven't deleted them or some shit either that or it could be sexual websites or just they want their privacy cause we all have a right to have privacy and if you aren't getting enough it can get frustrating you never know I guess

[Unhappysoul]

Ok from my experience its usually cheating sending girls his dick telling them he thinking about them in the shower and stuff he never tells me and we been together 2 years and last year i moved 2 hours away from him and he starts talking to other girls and his excuse was i was fucking horny and couldnt get your pussy anytime he wanted so he got nudes from other girls and i was pregnant with his daughter and this bullshit continued 8 times that i caught him doing that. And y'all say he has a right to privacy i have a right to know if im the only girl he loves

[TexPlayboy]

People demand privacy when they have something to hide.

Good Luck,

James

[jprincess]

Hi my boyfriend told me that if he don't look though my phone then I can't look though his what the fuck really let me knowu tthink he is hiding shits from me

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

Some people just really love their privacy. Or they could be cheating or keeping something from their partner they don't want them to see.

[Anonymous]

I guess its just for respect to someone's personal things. Like good old snail mail... everybody knows its rude to see someone else mail, and its the same thing with the phone.

[tex151]

Its also a felony to open someone else's mail.

[Swampwater]

because you snooping through his things exemplifies the fact that you lack confidence in him.

[armyant]

So you don't like it if people snoop around your phone but not letting you snoop around theirs is suspicious. The answer is that you're a hypocrite.

[MiaChan]

Im not saying that, I meant that the guy I was with didn't wanna see my cell , and I never checked his cell I just took a pic , lol and snooping around is checking it behind ones back or if someone is distracted in doing something else you take a peak into their stuff, if he would ask me to see my cell I would have shown it because I've got none to hide myself but yea I wouldn't like it if some1 checks it behind my back, and girls usually only wanna check the cell if the guy is secretive about it

[armyant]

If you asked to see his phone and he said no then that's it. But you didn't say that, you said

"this kinda behavior of not letting one even touch your phone" which sounds more like you're just taking his phone. And

"& I wasn't even checking it I was just taking a pic of myself with it"

sounds even more like you're just grabbing his phone without permission. You just said you wouldn't want people doing that to you.

[gary43907185]

It begins with P and ends with N. PORN. They have porn on their phones and don't want you you to see it.

[DaveThomas]

the only p*rn I have on my phone is of my girlfriend. lol. and its not even p*rn. its just simple pictures of her, wanting me to know I still only have EYES for her. if I had p*rn on my phone. id have no problem with people looking at it (as I'm not ashamed of that kind of stuff). simply put if she's going through my phone its an invasion of privacy and is actually illegal so I can call the cops on it

[Irrelevance]

Because guys are entitled to their privacy too.