Why are women attracted to losers?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

The losers I've been attracted to in the past put on a fake persona , so I fell for that. I believed they were someone they are not.

Over time their true colours showed and I discovered they were assholes or players , so I cut contact. So I thought I was initially attracted to a nice guy, not a bad guy

It made me wiser though when looking for a potential boyfriend.

Sometimes women get attached to a guy and feelings grow , so once they realise the guy isn't a nice guy after all they find it difficult to leave , and it's not easy for them to leave considering they have feelings for the guy. Even though in their heart they know they've fell for the illusion they guy created of himself

[lil_Wítch]

In your pov every man who is more preferable for a woman than you are is a loser.

[xxAjjxx]

Tricky question because most of them aren't. At least not a loser in their eyes. Women be with guys for different reasons, not just for looks or personality but for usefulness emotional, material wise. They can do or five something that the female wants. And even "losers" can do that. Loser. Winner. "He's a loser" I don't know what that really means, because life isn't a game.
Would you say a homeless man is a loser? Some later turn out to become millionaires. What about a McDonald's worker or someone in jail?
Personally the "losers" in life are those who are morally corrupt because they are the ones who will forever lose lif

[NearlyNapping]

Maybe your definition of loser is skewed. They got the girl, you didn't. They won, you lost. Maybe you should reevaluate what women are looking for instead of assuming the guy is a loser and you are the most fantastic person a woman could ever want. If they are going for other guys instead of you, there is a reason, and it's highly unlikely to be because they are losers.

Instead of judging the "losers", figure out what to do about yourself. Figure out what you are doing wrong and fix it. Constantly worrying about what others are doing doesn't get you anywhere.

[Asker]

lmao man i have no problems attracting women lol but by societies standards i am a loser and they still like me

[NearlyNapping]

Well society can have very weird standards. By loser does that mean you don't have money? That seems to be society's most common measure.

[Asker]

no money lol sometimes even jobless and i would say im also lazy i guess

[NearlyNapping]

Puts the lie to all the guys around here who say that women only go after money.

I'm a loser too. I'm a 60 year old ugly broke guy who's a hermit and never gets out. But I still know a few girls I could get tomorrow if I wanted. I have a few redeeming qualities though, if not very many.

[Asker]

lol well im a loser but girls like me no matter what lol like no matter what i wear I don't know

[NearlyNapping]

You've just got the X factor.

[redlif3]

they are attracted to people they perceive as winners

[Leandri]

what is a loser in your point of view?

[JADOR]

I think he means Bad Boys

[Asker]

losers just guys who dont give a shit yea it can be a bad boy

[Leandri]

i think it all about the " toughness" they give off