Why do I LOVE pictures of lone men?

[Unit1]

(I don't mean, that I am gay.)

It may have something to do with the fact, that I:
- Have 0 friends and almost never had any
- Never had a girlfriend
- Never even kissed or been kissed and I am still a virgin
- Spent most of my past time alone
- Am a social outcast

Note, that I am NOT a MGTOW but I do like viewing pictures like those. It makes me relate to them somehow. It makes me feel connected. It gives me the impression, that these men are enjoying their moment alone (not, that they wouldn't if they brought someone along).
Is there maybe some subconscious reason why I like it?

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+1 y

These pictures... they are the story of my life.

[JudgmentDay]

Because THEY"RE NOT JUST BUNCH OF SELFIES.

But I really I think there need to be more pictures of everybody doing things on their own, and pictures taken similarly as in NOT SELFIES. I like that it's all incognito, you can't really see who they really are or identify them since they're faces aren't clearly shown.

It reminds me of how deep down we're all really alone on the inside simply because nobody else can be us or is us, can't exactly feel what we feel, think exactly what we are thinking, or see the world exactly like we do. But just because things aren't going to end well in this world or all because we're really all alone on the inside, it doesn't mean that we can't have fun and spend time on our own outdoors to explore the world and surroundings and make good used of what limited time we've always had.

[Unit1]

A-to the lone -men, friend :)
It's true. We are never really not-alone. We can be watched, accompanied, followed and whatnot but after all we are all on our own. It's kind of the truth.
Remember that cold void and dark emptiness. It will always come back to you. It's how life works.
So it's best if we can enjoy a moment of total isolation in a nice and quiet place. It frees us kind of.

[JudgmentDay]

Thanks for MHO!

[ALPHALONEWOLF]

hmm...
listen you are like me or í can i am like you in this.
from age 11 this happens to me.
my friend circle is very small.
i cannot say í have any best friend.
sadly í had a girlfriend ( í wish í never had )
never had a kiss or been kissed still single.
spend most of the time alone or at home.
í like my own company. or people who are very very intelligent.

for i don't know why you doing.
maybe something hit at subconscious level. maybe you think way too much. i do...
it's not that i don't want to help other or don't want girlfriend or best. friends. ...

but the reason we need people who are like us. getting them are difficult. and we developed ourselves in a way that we don't need others.
you understand by my name and pic to.

[Unit1]

Hm, I see. That's cool actually.
Because we decided to be leaders on our own, not the followers.
If things work out eventually, we may cross paths with other lone leaders and maybe even form a new company as a result. But it takes much time of course.

There was this Einstein Quote I liked a lot. It was something like:
The one, who follows the crowd will go no further than the crowd. The one, who goes alone and it's own way is likely to end up somewhere, where nobody has been before.

[ALPHALONEWOLF]

you know person who stay alone.
some stay alone becuase they are shy and lack of confidence...

but stay alone becuase we have something different to offer.
we having different dreams from the group and...
being different from group feel weird.
but at least we will be responsible for our fails and won...

message me when you want to talk.
you got another lone...( A. L. W)

[Unit1]

We just vastly differ from the crowd or from the mass and that makes us an outcast.
We just are more like our own self.
That might explain why we aren't in a common crowd because we do not "fit in".
And neither they want to fit in to us.

You're welcome friend.

[HaveQuestions]

Nothing wrong with solitude, enjoying a moment to reflect, or finding peace in quiet places. People's heads are noisy places... a million things going on always. A moment to stop, look, be quiet, and reflect is so damn valuable.

Advice: go DO these things. Don't just look at pictures. Go find a beach, or a hill, or a road to walk down, a walk at night after most everyone else is gone away for the day. Good for the soul
(personal bias- fuck the snow. I'm over it for the year, lmao)

[Unit1]

Cool 🤗 this is amazing =)
I think it would be amazing with a good lady but I don't have one.
It must be really refreshing letting it all go in a quiet and pleasant and lonely place. I'm looking so forward to do just this. It's like a cheap vacation :)

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Maybe because subconsciously you like the idea of being strong on your own. Not every is or can.

People in those types of pics remind me of a person who" fights "alone , they are strong enough to rely on themselves, and not depend on other people. I never view them as lonely or isolated

[Unit1]

That's so on point and me =) I wouldn't have thought of that until now. Thanks a lot ^o^ 🤗

[Fitness-Fanatic]

You're welcome :)

Thanks for the MHO 👍

[Unit1]

I'm a lone wolf, a warrior on my own. I don't follow. I walk my own path, alone. Nobody else wants to have my adventure shared with them :)

[zombiebabe]

i like pics of lone people too,... cause i am kind of a loner too

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps these pictures make you feel that living a solitary existence is at least worthy of respect.

[Unit1]

Yes but there is much more to it than that.

In my mind I believe, that if I want a relationship, then it should be a healthy and functional relationship. Anything lower than that I will not accept and just prefer to be a loner instead for the best potential of living.
Makes sense?

[OlderAndWiser]

Of course that is a valid aspirational goal but
1. you can't know what a relationship will be until you get into it, and
2. experience in relationships that are less than ideal will make you a better partner and prepare you for better relationships.
If you sit around waiting for a perfect relationship to "happen," you will become a lonely old man asking what went wrong in your life.

[Unit1]

That wasn't exactly my point also.
I never expected a perfect relationship to form out of thin air.
It's just, that I wait for at least an adequate partner to come along.
In my other question you have read, how I do not like it, that most women care about my money. It's a turn off for me.
Aside from that many women are also smokers, which is a dealbreaker for me.

I know of a few women, that I would have crushes on but on one of them I found out, that she is a shallow person and wanted no longer associations with her.
The other one is unconfirmed but most likely married.
and the list goes on and etc.

To keep things short: I do NOT accept trash. I want a normal relationship.

[OlderAndWiser]

" I wait for at least an adequate partner to come along." That illustrates the point I was making. It sounds as if you are waiting for this to happen for you instead of taking an active role in making it happen. That is based on your words. Perhaps you aren't expressing yourself clearly and I am misreading the situation.

[Unit1]

Well, there are pieces of information that are left unsaid.
By waiting for the adequate partner I meant waiting until I FIND one whether it was by being approached or approaching.

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[Unit1]

Cool :>

[leehuang]

There's nothing sexual in the pics you shared. They only show a person being alone but looking totally cool with it. If it had been pics of guy with their penises out, that would have been a much better sign that you are closet gay. But these pics are almost generic , you could replace a female or a figure that's asexual (I mean if it's difficult to tell the gender from the pic) and you couldn't spot the difference.

[Unit1]

Yep. Good observation :)

[DrTruth]

Picture tells me that men can live happily with adventure, freedom from the 9-5 soul draining job, and be at peace with mother nature. Look up living off the grid and RV traveling if you want this lifestyle.

[Unit1]

Sounds good but I got this idea from MGTOW earlier sort of.

[Anonymous]

It's because you can only experience true freedom when in solitude. No matter what anyone tells you, even if you were with the perfect girl, you would not be free unless completely alone.

Other people bring their energy, desires, past trauma, regret, control, needs, thoughts and expectations. Whether good or bad, there is no freedom, no true freedom unless you are alone.

[Chilepikin]

Well first of all, why don't you have friends? And how come you've never kissed a girl? How is your confidence level? And very important, are you attracted to women at all, physically, mentally , emotionally, sexually?

[Unit1]

Well first of all, why don't you have friends?
A: Mostly because I did not want to be taken advantage of or being degenerated down to the level of a stupid student crowd. I get along well with professors and my coworkers however.

And how come you've never kissed a girl?
A: I'm not rich and I still am not rich. Enough said.

How is your confidence level?
A: I am 100% confident in my own body, thanks.

And very important, are you attracted to women at all, physically, mentally , emotionally, sexually?
A: You bet I do. I adore the ladies in my mind but I haven't met ladies worth a relationship. Most of the ladies (good or bad) are mostly taken. The quality ladies are also hard to find.

[Chilepikin]

Brother, I'm not talking about finding someone to get married to, you're 22yrs old and haven't had the pleasure of kissing a woman? Also I only asked if you were attracted to women based on you mentioning you were not gay. Being a loner has advantages but its also bad for the spirit, once you get with a girl you'll understand eh I mean, you can't possibly understand right now, and you're going to hate yourself for missing out all this time. The best moments of my life I've had them next to a lady. Stop being shy, it will come naturally its part of the survival instinct to reproduce, I've myself been alone for 4yrs and its very depressing, until recently I've become more socially engaged, I'm talking to a couple of ladies and I'm building my confidence up again. Cheers mate good luck and man up 😉

[Unit1]

No, you missed my point almost entirely.

Nothing wrong with being a loner. It's a perfectly normal part of life.
Look at what I responded to OlderAndWiser because I do not want to type the same thing twice.

[Chilepikin]

You can make up as many excuses as you like, if what you're looking for is for empowering comments, I can understand. I simply give you my thoughts on the subject. Do I think it's healthy to be alone? Nope,.
Is it healthy to wait for that special one? Nope.
Is being alone (antisocial) sign of depression? Yes

Just my humble opinion. Cheers

[ThisDudeHere]

Dude... no offense but you are developing an rather unhealthy obsession over all of this stuff.

[Unit1]

Explain Dude.

[ThisDudeHere]

I can very easily relate to your position but I choose to ignore the bad stuff in my life and focus on the few good things that I have. Keeps my mind at ease.

[Unit1]

You still failed to explain how this is a bad attitude.

[ThisDudeHere]

Because it self detrimental to think negatively.

[Unit1]

I do not think of it as a negative thing? It's quite the opposite if you have missed the point.

[ThisDudeHere]

If you say so.

[Unit1]

Eh, to hell with it. Upvote for ya!

[WriterAndPainter]

Perhaps it's the appreciation of the art behind it.

[Anonymous]

Cause men are sexy!

Besides that, those pictures are well photographed and the subject is positioned such that it's pleasing to the eye

[NatashaBeauty]

You wanna be free like them.

[Unit1]

In context of social status, I am free like they are.

[AlexEfron]

Bro you described me perfectly 😅

[Unit1]

Cool :>

[spnsfi]

Seems like you answered your own question

[rcm1ah]

My guess is that you're a homosexual.

[spnsfi]

Lmfao, this guy is always savage

[Anonymous]

because they are good pictures

[Anonymous]

Solitude is great