Why do so many women unmatch on Tinder, even after talking?

[Anonymous]

I don't get it... some of the women I talk to just unmatch after awhile. What's with that?

I've since deleted my Tinder, it's honestly a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

This is why modern dating is near impossible, along with society's tendencies with casual sex. Women's egos are literally SO validated that they only accept guys with celebrity good looks, even when they don't have them themselves.

Isn't everyone supposed to have an equal opportunity at dating? Isn't it a cause for concern when women are so much more likely to date than men? Tinder is really frustrating me as of late if you can't tell.

[Asker]

You hit the nail on the head. That's why I just deleted it. If it gets better in the future, then maybe i will try it out again, but I don't see that happening.

[Opinion Owner]

And the thing is, I've given women many good reasons to like me or find me worthy of at least getting to know, but nothing ever happens. Of course I go on there and like all of the 10/10 girls, but I give out likes to the occasional average, everyday looking girl too, and still, they have pics with Abercrombie pretty boys or wannabe gang member looking thug type dudes. It's as if there's no middle ground. At that point you know they're not paying any attention or interests in your everyday good guy.

[Asker]

Yup, pretty much the average, good guys being screwed over. It sucks. I have a better chance of meeting somebody on the street rather than Tinder.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't even mean average in an appearance sense, I just mean the good, everyday, hardworking guy. He might be average, he might not be, he might be good looking. The guy that's just trying to do things the right way.

[Asker]

Apologies, that's what I meant as well. Just going to start focusing on myself and maybe the right one will drop by... but until then, I'm not trying anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I mean it *should* (emphasis on the should) work out eventually, but by modern day standards, you'd have to swipe through thousands of women just to find the right one. Sad man.

[Opinion Owner]

You can even allude to having money but the hardships still remain in my experience. You just have to wonder what in the F**K you're doing wrong after a certain point! ugh

[Asker]

Exactly. Hoping things get easier soon in regards to finding the right one, but we'll play it by ear!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I found a girl I wouldn't mind asking out. Hoping I can channel my inner Casanova for once in my life and she's not taken or something

[Anonymous]

A lot of girls go on there just for attention.
They don't care that they are screwing with your trust and emotions.
Girls would die without constant attention.

[Asker]

Yeah, I've realized most use it to boost their ego... it's pretty sad.

[Topkek]

They use Tinder for validating their ego and crave attention, and they will only go out with a guy who's either 8/10 in the looks department or someone who has a fat wallet.

Tinder, and all dating for that matter, is a big fat waste of time.

[Asker]

Yup, unfortunately it took me a long time to realize that, and now I've wasted way too much time on it.

[Nelsoen]

I hook up with girls from tinder all the time... honestly bro, every guy experiences wins and losses. Don't blame the game, just get better

[Bigbasbear2023]

And so do I but what they are saying isn’t wrong. I’m pull absolute rockets but it is a skill and takes deception and sadly genuine or introvert men suffer. See you Calle did a game and you do well. But I can promise you that you are the absolute worst guy for women to date and so am I. It’s a game. But it’s all good trying to run it in these guys faces but maybe they are genuine and don’t want to play games but in this day and age of social media women have been validated so much that their dating expectations are unrealistic. It’s why they get screwed over so much, they go for the same men. 90% of women date the same 10% of men. And women who aren’t even too women think because they can sleep with the top men they must be same league but they aren’t. A 8/9 guy will sleep with a 5/6 girl. Women don’t have any self awareness of what league they are in. Ask them and 90% say 9/10. Because even below average women can attain a great guy they just can’t retain the guy. Because they will end up dark f their level or higher. And it’s men who are suffering but they also are causing this suffering by simping. If most men stopped validating women then they wouldn’t be so validated and delusional and then would have better expectations. It’s a Vicious y or but women are the problem …… I had one girl I match me last weekend because she felt I was too into her haha I’ve got four others on the go I’m smashing. That’s because she felt I was but I wasn’t abs women are delusional they just operate from feelings. I agree they should get better and better themselves if you improve yourself women coke to you but same time women are the problem …. Chase the money not the honey

[BroederBerend]

Yeah but u are BBC

[JCT666]

Most of them use it as an ego boost.