Why do women approve of girls bullying boys at school?

[plkiollln]

Bullies dont need to be provovoked to be pissed off they bully for the power they feel over their victems... So if a girl bullies a boy and tells his mother she asks"what did you do to piss the bully off? There's always two sides to a story she tells him

boys should not tell their mother if a girl bullies him

I will protect my son no girl ( or boy) will lay a finger on him.

[diannek]

a very generalised statement but i won't take it to heart,
i don't approve of bullying as a whole and I'm not sure what made you come to the conclusion that women as a whole approve.
I hope i can change your mind

As you said moms ask but i believe for the reason of wanting to get to the heart of the situation of the bully as well. Mothers I've found are always very concerned even for children that aren't their own.
While there's no excuse for bullying, children are young and maybe there's something going on in the other childs life? maybe the boy might have a hint as to what it is?

many if not most mother's I've met have an unwavering commitment to resolving situations
and it's beautiful i think because we all have something to offer in this world and if we shun bully's without giving them a chance that won't fix the anything. Even good people do bad things sometimes we have to remember

love the person hate the action.

[plkiollln]

Tell that to boy or girl who puts your son in a coma and having fight for his life in the ice. .. come back to me by then

[plkiollln]

ICU***
EDITED

[diannek]

it hasn't happened to me so i very well can't speak from experience because I'm not a mother. If it's happened to someone you know I'm really sorry to hear that, but in all honestly being bitter about it still doesn't seem like it would fix the situation does it?

The anger would be understandable but the truth of the matter is what's the best way to prevent this from happening again?
because it's already happened and that can't be reversed but it can be stopped

[plkiollln]

Exactly it hasn't happened to you. Modern boys of 2017 don't have a mother to run to. not if a girl or a woman attacks him

[diannek]

still a bit generalised i believe but I'd like to know, what's your take on what should be done?

[plkiollln]

1. she gave birth him/her
2she didn't pick him/her up on the street
3. why let someone hurt your son/daughter?
4. stop being gender biased and treat everyone as just as you can

[diannek]

okay of all those

the 3rd statement is the one I'm not understanding

what happened?
the boy reported the bullying the mom didn't listen and he ended up in a comma is that the situation?

[myriamgh]

I don't approve of bullying myself. But my kid (boy or girl) should learn to be tough and smart. They should know how to make good comebacks and stand for themselves. Im talking about my own experience with bullies as a kid. Now, no one dares mess with me. I never bully anyone. In fact I help the victim sometimes. I helped myself, my parents never did. That's why I know that as a mother, I won't interfere but rather empower my kid to help them get their bullies down.

[Jesmarston]

seriously this shouldn't be a problem a remembered being terrorized by boys growing up and i couldnt do anything about it and modern girls propably still can't do anything meaningfull to hurt a boy

[plkiollln]

I guess your one of those mothers who son should never confide in you about bullying... then wonder why kids as young as ten commit suicide.

[Jesmarston]

thankfully i dont have children and if i had a son i would tell him to man up and not go through life looking to mommy to save him

[plkiollln]

Your a shifty parent then... I guess your son will confide in step mother or father's gfor rather than to confide in you... at least she won't allow her son to be bullied by children at school... your not worth it DON'T HAVE KIDS PLEASE DON'T HAVE KIDS

[plkiollln]

Or maybe he can rather confide in his father's girlfriebd

[Jesmarston]

Listen there is no need to insult me i just dont want a needy weakling as a child especially if he is scared of a girl that might hurt his feelings

[plkiollln]

Or maybe your son should call his father's girlfriend mom instead of you. at least she will love him

[Jesmarston]

i would love my son but i dont want a oversensitive cry baby

[Jesmarston]

like you apperantly

[plkiollln]

Well you don't have a nephew who is dealing with situation currently do you?

[Jesmarston]

i was bullied as a kid and i got over it infact it made me tougher, its a valuable life lesson parents can't teach their children

[Jesmarston]

we can't protect them forever you know

[plkiollln]

Well my cousin lives with us her son who is 9 cries on his bed everyday do you think it's nice for me to see my nephew cry? Do you think I want to see my cousin son in pain? I'm the only male figure in his life. ... I'm the only adult in that house who cares and will see the principle on Monday I will talk to him

[Akesuke]

"I love you, mom and dad, I know that I have to learn some things by myself and I want... but please please guide me, don't leave me alone when I need you... "

[plkiollln]

@Akesuke it's no use she doesn't care... I tried to talk

[Jesmarston]

honestly i feel sorry for your nephew but its part of growing up codling him will have much larger side effects than bullying

[IHateLife]

It's simple, they want boys/men to be severely depressed so they commit suicide because they hate males. This is why men's mental health isn't taken seriously and the left laughs and believes its good that white men kill themselves.

[blondfrog]

Yeah that's why girls are bitches. I have first hand knowledge of this cause when I was in grade school I got picked on by girls all the time.
Then people wonder why I have enough and have to slap those bitches.

[BogeyMulligan]

I’m sorry that you have been bullied but if you had a son I think you should be more considerate than avoiding the situation all together especially when it comes to kids they’re vulnerable at that stage in life and sometimes they need a little support then usual telling a young boy to man up because he’s telling you he’s being isn’t the solution it adds fuel to the fire take it from me who was also bullied at a young age.

[Mitch6192]

They definitley don't. Haha xD.

[Dred1614returns]

They do?