Why do boys bully girls?

[Anonymous]

In my case I remember this boy I was friends with and he was just a boy and I was kind of tomboyish but he was sometimes nice cause he bought me sweets after school whenever I had no money but into the first year of high school he switched up on me because of a little incident. I must’ve told someone he likes this girl and he got embarrassed or something and told me to never talk to him again. I was hurt and from then he always bothered me considering we were friends before the incident. I started hanging with my girl-friends a lot more and whenever he was around he’d try talk down to me and threatened to expose me for god knows I guess being a tomboy or I don't know whenever I was around him in front of my friends, or he’d say something about me that was to embarrass me and make his friends laugh. He’d act like I was a disease and not sit next to me or work with me when he had to. It was kinda embarrassing. He always did this throughout my whole high school experience and I never knew why. Then when prom came up he said I look nice which surprised me but he carried on bothering me going into college. Then this one odd day on my way home on the bus and he came and sat next to me even tho I purposely placed my bag there so he doesn’t sit next to me. I was soo confused. Then for some reason I began to get really curious and do stupid stuff like wait after school hoping I’d catch him on the bus again but it was only a one time thing. But yeah it was weird.

[boggboss]

You know why tho because of the incident that happen thats the reason yes he was a dick but this is not some thing that just happens you did somthing he didn't like and then on disliked you

[Asker]

Yeah I know that but it was minor we were like 11, 12 so I wouldn’t expect him to hold it against me. He’s had problems with my friends which were a lot worse but was resolved and he was fine with them. But me? He treated me like shit? Even if I did something the fact he was willing resolve considering we were friends isn't sitting right with me

[Asker]

Wasn’t*

[boggboss]

No for you it was somthing small or minor but that dont mean he saw it that way plus if someone you are friends with or like betrays you even in a small way it can hurt much more

[Asker]

Sorry but I disagree. Like I said him and his friends have had a lot more bigger issues and he was fine with resolving them. But me? No he was fine with kicking me to the curb. Then continuing to bother me or call me out if I laugh at a joke specially if he’s involved it’s like I’m his weakest link and talk down to me. He’s a prick, and confusing. I’m not a disease it was totally uncalled for for act the way he did. As if I was a piece of shit but okayy

[boggboss]

At no point did i justify his behaviour just explain why he would have done it it dont make it right but it how he could see it in his head as fair game

[Asker]

I get it. Fair enough

[mich15smith]

he might just kinda dislike you but not hate you or he doesn't think that his behaviour is so bad to you

[Asker]

Hmm that is a little confusing to understand if that is the case in my situation but it could be I guess, hmm

[Anonymous]

Cause it’s fun I remember snapping lots of bra straps

[Opinion Owner]

I depantsed a girl when I was in grade 5 she had some cute panties

[Opinion Owner]

She was a complete bitch she deserved what she got

[Opinion Owner]

If you were here I’d rape you toss you out like the slut you are

[In_Trance]

Small dick energy

[Asker]

Deffo