From your picture you're good looking and you said you're doing good in school, sounds to me that they're just jealous, you can and should stand up for yourself, but when you do you have to give the knock out punch figuratively, make it hurt make them see deep down in the abyss of sorrow and insecurity that is their life, make your words sting make them regret they even saw you walking down the hall, I've been bullied in primary school and I've either handled it by either ignoring which is not a good solution or by getting into fights which didn't always work out but it felt good to stand up to oneself, and after that I've realized that no matter what, always stand up for yourself and don't let anyone give their back to you and walk away once they've hurt your feelings just for their own pleasure, stand up for yourself kid, and when attacked physically don't be afraid to fight back. The thing with bullying is it's never ok to be calm about it, and ignoring a problem doesn't solve it
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They're all insecure. They are intimidated by your intelligence. Trust me I go through it to. They ask for the answers and then get mad when I don't give the answers to them. They always say I never share. I just think I'm too nice. I just started saying no as much as I can. The trick I do when they try to get in your head, is to get in theirs. Ask them questions as if you want them to be your friend like what they got for Christmas or how their break was and what they did over the weekend. If it doesn't work compliment them and just be nice to them. With guys you can be mean back because they can't do anything about it. But if they do hit you or anything like that just file a lawsuit or tell a trusted adult. Don't let anyone control you.
You have to completely not react to it in front of them. Look up a technique called "grey rocking".
Just note time place and instigators when it happens. Note which adults were around and what they did when you reported the situation. If you need to, start raising holy hell with your parents, their parents, the school, the district, the media. Your school needs to be intervening.
You need to talk to your parents and let them get to the bottom of this. This requires the department of education to be involved. That's basically illegal. And possibly the authorities may have to get involved. Naturally, they're jealous. But anybody who threatens to hurts you is something that has to be taken seriously.
Yes in grade school I was extremely intelligent and one guy hated me and bullied me because he was jealous. As I got older the jealous haters increased. Now I'm in University and most people like the fact I get good grades instead of hating me for it and really I'm no longer proud - happy I can feed myself and that is it.
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Well your not any of those things he calls you I was very bullied by everyone even the teachers that's why after 5th grade I decided to be homeschooled I'm doing great now , he probably likes you or us just a jack ass ,
I’d say he is either very self conscious and feels better about putting others down, or, he likes you but he doesn’t realize his feelings [yet] or it could just be that most guys just suck
Baby girl, message me his number real quick. I just wanna ask him a question.
Punch him in the mouth right in front of a teacher. It might get you suspended but he won't do it again I promise and if he dares decide to hit s girl bad the teach will be right there to stop him. But seriously it just sounds like he has a crush on you and does r know how to express it... Some kids are just weird...
I think he's insecure of himself, and feels the need to put someone else down in order to feel better (unfortunately he chose you). The best thing to do is be the more mature person and just show him love (not romantic lol). Give him absolutely no reason for him to act this way, and people will see his true colors. Remember that you are worth so much more than what people say, so try and let his insults roll off your back. :)
Tell him exactly this with absolute calm, and be sure everybody in the room will hear it “Man... I know you are angry because your penis is so small and your daddy doesn’t love you. But being a bad person is not going to fix that things, so im not going to answer to you or pay attention anymore, so shut the fuck up” and don’t ever pay attention to that asshole, be happy, don’t waste your time with him
As someone who was bullied a lot school I can tell you that their more than likely jealous of you, I know it sounds weird but i learnt to take it as a compliment and thought it was funny that they were so obsessed with my life. Now when ever I see them now I feel really smug but play it classy because I know I'm more successful and happy then they never be.
Children are stupid. Honestly you are so beautiful. Ignore the head and realize you are above it all. People want a reaction out of you
Talk to your parents and have them talk to the school or the kids parents bullying is a really big issue and a lot of people take there life's over it doesn't something about it while you can
When this happens, Ignore them, but that still doesn't help. I would say next time you see the doucebags. Say sometime to him, "Piss off, shithead!" Or do the talk to hand thing. I am talking to you, fuckhead!
Make him look like an idiot by saying something true about him.
You gotta bully harder, obviously he ain't gonna hit you so you can say the harshest shit be creative. Don't be so emotional as well bullies like that.
Maybe tell him to grow up. Or if he is really getting in your head then compliment him back and it works most of the time
If I was in your high school, he probably will get some punches from me :)
U should just respond back and fight if needed. Thats my way of treating with haters. It usually doesn't turn into a fight
Because he doesn't want to admit that he likes you and is attracted to you and so he acts in the complete opposite way
He's an ass. Legally u can charge him as there are zero tolerance laws. You can pay someone to take care if him. But I would either charge him or just stand up to him and ask him why? He isn't much if a man if he threatens a woman.
Easy chirp back. You know his main line is "shut up or i'll slap you in the face" just call him out he won't do anything.
Bullies are just insecure themselves. He probably think you are weaker than him and that's why he bullies you.
He likes you just offer to suck his dick he will say yes and then make fun of him
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