Why do some guys bully females. or why do young boys in school bully a girl?

[Anonymous]

[TheorionMage]

YOUNG boys often tease or bully... to DEMAND a girl notice them and give them attention.
Reciprocally, girls will 'surrender' their attention to avoid escalating the interaction any further to a physical encounter. (In first grade, I got to be her 'white knight' and put the Bully in his place! )

Anecdotally, in the absence of such physical intervention, SOME boys never 'mature' in their adolescence.
If they can't 'earn' her affections, they'll settle for extorting her compliance through fear and sometimes this evolves into nascent 'Dom / Sub' fetishes, because each KNOWS their Roles and 'what works and is 'survivable'.

[ohshee]

Because they're boys they think it's flirting and all they're waiting for is for you to just talk back and hit him straight in the mouth and tell him to shut the fuk up and you won't ever bother you again it's because we can't bully boys because they know they'll get their ass kicked sometimes a girl has to take a chance and just be bold have a brother standing right there or something to that always helps but if you allow them to pick on you when times are going to always pick on you

[PrettyPriya]

Most of the time, they have insecurities themselves and that is there terrible way of making themselves feel better.

[crimsonandclover2]

They are insecure and might lack attention from a parent at home, so they lash out at others for attention.

[Iron_Man]

From experience from the complete opposite I believe it’s an affectionate thing without feeling embarrassed and talking to them for real that way the one that’s wanting to fight can engage the other person in conversation

[crimsonandclover2]

Yeah that makes sense
Good explanation

[Iron_Man]

Thank you 😊

[crimsonandclover2]

You're welcome :)

[Anonymous]

Young boys mock and tease girls they like. This is because males will insult and tease each other as a sign of endearment.

Girls see this as bullying because as a female they are used to other females who complement each other and don’t mean it. So when a guy acts the way guys do, girls get triggered.

But when a guy calls another a dumb ugly cock sucker, it usually means he thinks the guy is cool.
Think about when you hear bros talk to each other.

[SlothySlob]

Insecurities, easy target, a twisted way of showing interest...

[Iron_Man]

Because they really like them that way they have no choice but to engage with them

[jahaims]

They don't know how to accurately convey intent so they are awkward about it.

[In_Trance]

because they dunno what else to do