What are signs someone envies you?

[Anonymous]

I've always been a bit curious what the signs are

[Anonymous]

#1 Jealous people ply you with false praise and insincere compliments.
#2 They try to downplay your achievements.
#3 They flaunt their successes more than its actual merit.
#4 Jealous people deliberately give bad advice.
#5 Jealous people imitate you.
#6 They are very competitive towards you.
#7 Jealous people criticize you in every aspect.
#9 They celebrate your failures.
#10 They are absent during your moments of successes.
#11 They talk behind your back.
#12 They will humiliate you in front of others.
#13 They just hate you for no reason at all.

[Asker]

How are some ways that they will humiliate you in front of others?

[Opinion Owner]

like they'll make fun of you. Your dress, hairstyle, habits, bla bla...

[Asker]

Hmm what if they purposely try to talk a lot knowing you are quiet?

[Opinion Owner]

they're curious. Maybe they simply wanna mingle with you or something. or they see this as your weakness and exploit it.

[Asker]

They talk to others a lot when you are quietly seated at a table

[Opinion Owner]

well do they qualify on the above mentioned facts?

[Asker]

Not really.

But I wondered why that girl was acting weird towards me

[Opinion Owner]

then that's not jealousy... what was she exactly doing?

[Asker]

Basically I was sitting really quiet and she was trying to talk to everyone else when they, sensing I was quiet, were trying to eb nice to me.

[Opinion Owner]

well just ignore her... not a big deal!!!

[Asker]

That's exactly what I was doing but it was so obvious she was purposely doing it and nother people picked up on it too

[Opinion Owner]

that's what people do... they pick on the most quite person...

[Asker]

But they weren't picking on me.

[Opinion Owner]

i mean they were trying to be nice so that u can talk!!!

[Asker]

True, but the other girl was purposely talking a lot when it was so obvious I was annoyed at everyone and hence I was quiet

[Opinion Owner]

well still can't be sure that she was doing it to annoy you or not... just leave that group... that'll be slap on her face lol...

[Asker]

The thing is, I wasn't atlking or LOOKING at anyone. I think they were all in shock as I was being subtle-ly rude but my message came across loud and clear that I really don't like any of them.

I think it was a slap in her face that I didn't acknowledge her either, as though I barely know her.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah, so why're you caring so much about it... 1 for you - 0 for the other girl... :D

[Asker]

Actually, I wondered about the others who were being nice to me.

Did they finally realize how NOT OKAY their behaviour to me was in the past?

I wonder if even after the day was over they might be wondering within themselves why I wouldn't look at any of them.

[Opinion Owner]

maybe yes maybe not...

[Anonymous]

Jealous people ply you with false praise and insincere compliments
They try to downplay your achievements.
They flaunt their successes more than its actual merit
Jealous people deliberately give bad advice.
Jealous people imitate you.
They are very competitive towards you.
Jealous people criticize you in every aspect.
They are absent during your moments of successes.
They talk behind your back.
They just hate you for no reason at all.

[Asker]

whoa this is the exact same post that the guy above posted; are you guys the same user?

[NerdInDenial]

They try to downplay your achievements.

[Asker]

In what way?

[NerdInDenial]

For example, if you have a high paying job, they'll mention how others make similar amount of money.

[Asker]

Hmm will they say stuff like, "yeah you know it's not for everyone,' when you tell them you don't like something?

This stupid bitch said it to me. I felt like seriously hurting her but contorlled myself

[NerdInDenial]

I'm not sure if that's envy or just trying to be dominant over you. I think she just wants to ensure that she is better than you are and that you remember that. Either way, it's still a bitchy move.

[Asker]

The thing is why?

She seemed pretty bitchy the whole time and when I said I had to go her face changed.

Hence I wondered if this is some kind of jealous resentment, almost like a possessiveness or something of me

[NerdInDenial]

She's just an attention whore and is insecure she ain't "all that."

[Asker]

What is her problem with me? was this a deliberate attempt to put me down?

I thought she was so nice before I saw this side of her.

Stupid bitch. Right now I won't do anything but when teh time is right man will I get her

[NerdInDenial]

Why even bother? The best way to get her back is to go about your life. That'll bother her more: your inaction.

[Asker]

After insulting me etc. when I said I had to go her face changed.

So I am starting to think this too, that if I go about my life not letting her know she had an impact on me, that in itself would be the best kind of revenge

[NerdInDenial]

She wants a response from you, especially a negative one. That way, she can play the victim and grab sympathy. If, however, you can look pass it, then people will think how calm and rational you are. That drives her nuts inside.

[Asker]

Hmm but why is she doing all this?

lol I am very good at keeping my cool but unfortunately since she has insulted me, I've been feeling a bit miserable for days.

I didn't show it at the time though