What's the worst thing about being your gender? (Page 2)

Question

periods😠

simplestchic · Answer

We women are an expensive gender. Bras, feminine hygiene, make-up, etc.

lovelybabygirl · Answer

Periods, be called a slut when I hang out with many guy friends, being afraid to say that I'm not a virgin cuz many guys will try to take advantage of it ( my ex is responsible for that), forced to cover ourselves up even at the hottest days of school because if guys see skin they will cum their pants, can't swear, can't have bad habits, must be shaved from head to toes

R3NeGeTiC · Answer

Fighting, protecting people that you care and love especially a girlfriend, being weak physically, trying so hard to impress the girl that you chosen and she makes a joke out of you, shines, being feminine makes girls to turn your back on you because most want masculine guys (this depends on the girl, one girl might find you feminine and the other girl might find you masculine), having a female friend who you love but she doesn't love you (well she's your friend and you have friendly relationship with her and deep down you love her (I love my best friend who is a girl)). I don't know how to continue this in words, just question me in more details over PM ;)

jammy85 · Answer

The unwanted male attention and the big risk of being a victim for being a female. And periods, periods are hell on earth

Graydon · Answer

Probably elections that pop out of nowhere. That rarely happens to me now but that used to happen almost in school when I was 13 and I even had to blow off trying out for the volleyball team because erections are very noticeable wearing gym shorts. I just couldn't trust myself to last 1hr without an erection that is how often they came up.

mrmeseeks · Answer

I think having balls is pretty bad. If you get hit in them it's the worst most painful feeling you could ever experience and it's taken so lightly or people think it's incredibly funny when it happens, but getting hit in the balls really hard can severely hurt them. Not only that but there's the scariest thing to me personally about having testicles and that is testicular torsion, which depending on how far the testicles hang from the scrotum could happen when you're sleeping, working out.. etc

04_gxng · Answer

not being able to pee where ever you want like a guy.

xXSaturnXx · Answer

1: Periods 2: Our friend circles can be so self-absorbed at times.  3: I'm terrified of childbirth, I want kids some day but it scares me.  4: Most men view us as wank material rather than people 🙁

OMNIQUAKE · Answer

the fact that you could be perceived as a threat if your out late alone.

TripleAce · Answer

having to always be held to a standard of picking up after women...
It's enough that I have to use my hard earned muscles to help them pick up stuff lol... but then the also wanna dig deep into the wallet hahah

but they're also so soft and cuddling... the perfect compliment so I can't get rid of them ether lol... ah well

Itsjustsomeguy · Answer

The vast differences in sex drives is probably a big one for both genders. As a guy, it means being horny 24/7 and wanting to share it with someone but needing to suppress it constantly for the sake of not coming off like it's the only thing I care about. For ladies it means having to wade through a sea of horny guys who only seem like they care about sex and who constantly pressure you for it when it just doesn't interest you.

suddy · Answer

1. You cannot meet a sane person to date and 2. Marriage is pointless because divorce courts favor women so dating is really hard because all women want at my age is a ring instead of actually taking the time to get to know you. 3. The SJW's that talk about tolerance of other people and their beliefs but simultaneously have a category for every single person they meet and who get triggered when you do not fit their paradigm.

jademcculloch · Answer

periods, boobs getting in the way, dealing with hair, painting nails, vaginal discharge

Musiclover10009 · Answer

Periods, the stereotype that women can't do anything, being disrespected and only seen as a body and not a person. Sucks

CharlieChaplin · Answer

Internalized sexism and misogyny. The fact that it has been under two centuries since the suffrage movement, and we are still arguing over fundamental human rights based on biological sex.

Gianna17 · Answer

I love being a woman, periods are the only thing i really dislike.

theoddestperson · Answer

There is a lot of things that I hate about being a female. We have to do deal with pregnancy, period cramps, breast problems, etc... The list goes on and on!

OldS0ul · Answer

Literally every time I have my period I think about my future and count down the years I have till I hit menopause and imagine what that will be like. I'm like "I remember when I was free" and my uterus is like "We will rise once more"

JSmuve · Answer

Probably assuming that we're creeps and gonna sexually assault you just because we happen to find you attractive and look at/talk to you.

Daltron · Answer

I don't get asked out, I have to do the asking. higher standards and instant judgement for meaningless actions and mistakes. always being told all of us are rapists when we are not. alimony, and getting hosed in family Court.

JaysWing · Answer

periods, pregnancy, shaving, cramps, mood swings, discharge, even losing our virginity hurts. And women are overall expensive, even without buying makeup and hair supplies.

xerosagas · Answer

Men aren't allowed to show weakness and don't get nearly as much emotional support. Then there's dealing with the fallout of other men doing stupid shit to women that gets blamed on all of us.

adamsshadow · Answer

your suppose to know everything at that given time, despite your age. okay after like 12. that's my experience with women.
now with men , it's this sense of being a clone in a cloud. everyone has their clicks, but we all are in the same race. guys get a bad rep, because we don't think. it's all about our greed and desire in one case or another.

Mandude · Answer

-White male privilege.
-Women that treat you like crap (they know rape, assault, abuse, will almost always be in their favor so they have no limits sometimes)
-Having to do the approaching
-Being attracted to women (sometimes it keeps us from actually treating them like the human being they really are)
-Needing to cry, or talk to someone about your emotions (can't really do much unless you have a girlfriend)

MikkiM · Answer

Social status :/ If you're not in, you are simply nothing

art84 · Answer

Doing things to need to be fix around the house like fixing a broken door or installing something like a wall mount. I just feel men are suppose to be the handy man which I don't mind but it gets annoying when something little gets made into a big thing.

AngelxS · Answer

Having periods is one of the worst thing. It's like I'm a different woman when it happens. Also being treated differently especially in video games world just because I'm a female. We may be females but we love to play video games too.

soul1112 · Answer

Probably just the fact that women far less into guys than we are to women (though it obviously isn't the case, but it's about what it seems). It's understandable when you explain it to us, but it can feel a bit of a drag if you aren't at least moderately attractive and are tough enough to approach girls.

Angel672 · Answer

Constantly being stereotyped for being pig or a "fuck boy." I actually consider myself a gentleman. I never consider going after somebody in a relationship, chase somebody who isn't interested or looking, or get into a relationship purely for sex or have it when the other person isn't ready. Men aren't always stereotyped, but many times they are, and when they are, it's difficult to prove to an entire opposite gender that not all men are the same.

WantAnswersNow · Answer

the emotions. the neediness. the catching feelings too damn much. the giving too much of a damn about crap. oh and bleeding for days or weeks at a time. yeah you got me fucked up. however I would never want to be a man so I learned to appreciate being female. I wouldn't want it any other way

TheOriginalCris · Answer

having to hide emotions and act a certain way to be soon as "cool" by other people

RachelleDraws · Answer

Periods! And being hit on by boys. I'm a lesbian, so...

Xavixk · Answer

Always having to initiate and take control... That shit is tiresome.

qristhe1 · Answer

I think always being a utility is the worst thing. knowing that people don't value Men's Life

Blueberry_Spicehead · Answer

Gotta say that the worst thing about being male is that people don't trust men around children sometimes not even their own children.

Janedoe25 · Answer

Periods, big sore breasts every month, worrying some bitter wacked out guy rapes me. On a date or on a quiet street. Had a few close incidents.

Mahir_G · Answer

periods? how about erections? every now and then? lol

Punkbuster107 · Answer

Having to downplay that I love children, because even just reading this message, on some level you've probably just questioned whether I might be a pervert.

BreeJM · Answer

periods, dealing with my hair, make-up (that's why I don't wear it), shaving, giving birth, bra's

Lelaila · Answer

I agree. Periods and PMS are the worst! I'm happy for men that they don't have to go through this.

SnowyCuriosity · Answer

People assuming that men always have to make the first move. I'm super quiet, shy and timid around people I don't know or people I like, so I'm terrified of making the first move.

mermaid175 · Answer

periods, pregnancy, and having to tell men/ the media of my self worth rather than just existing and being accepted

Anonymous · Answer

Being a man makes your life easier in a number of ways. But I feel having to always take the initiative when it comes to relationships and the expectations women have sometimes can be hard.

Anonymous · Answer

Friendships, with girls some are cruel and are fake to destroy you.
With guys some pretend to be friends in hopes of taking advantage when you're in a weak moment

Sorry had to vent, I lost some so called friends recently

syvah · Answer

oh.. bottling up emotions to the point of utter self-destruction. because having feelings Is considered weak.

SomeGui · Answer

accidentally sitting on your balls (anybody who has done this and put any weight on them knows how painful this is)

puleen · Answer

i am a male and i think male has so much difficulty in flirting with the girl.. girls have the benifit.. guys automatically come and they have many options to select

Ch33secake · Answer

Periods, Childbirth, Moodswings, Feelings, Angst, Depression, Relationship Issues, Stretchmarks, Body Image, Over-sexualised depictions of women (Otherwise bashed for being too sexual whereas the man is no problem, its either funny or hot) High expectations of how you appear and act etc etc

Theseven · Answer

The typical stereotype  Not allowed to cry. Only small choice in clothes  Act like nothing could hurt you This sucks

colbylane_ · Answer

1. having a boner pop up unexpectedly or when you don't need it showing
2. easy to accuse men of rape so he is shamed on the media, rather he did it or not.
3. child custody, moms almost always win this and dads are left only able to see kids every so often due to mom having custody.
4. Blamed for being horny all the time
5. never trusted fully

Genie23 · Answer

The painful cramps 😣 Seriously, sometimes the pain gets unbearable. I end up crying because it hurts so much and it distracts me from the work/task I was doing. I can't concentrate properly.

grega239 · Answer

hm lets see... women can fck whenever u want men can't unless we pay,(wich , lets be honest we pay either way) i have no desire to be forced into a pointless war, not to mention all the free stuff we dont get (drinks, diners etc.) and so on

CSimms · Answer

Nothing, I love who i am & I love my gender. I've never has low self esteem. You r who u r so thats all you have to work with. Just appreciate what ever gender u may be!

OtakuGirl4242 · Answer

mood swings before periods for sure... and period itself

TheMoroccangirl · Answer

-periods -child birth -first time pain -hormonal mood swings -menopause

RealandGenuine1991 · Answer

I can't think of anything. ALL people have problems regardless of whether you're male or female.

AnonTheGuy · Answer

Selling your personality rather than having random guys flirt with you like girls get to.

Vacuum-Rats · Answer

That parents will stubbornly circumcise their son because they think they are supposed to and people are too ignorant to know that it's mutilation of the body.

Anonymous · Answer

Getting kicked in the balls, divorce, alimoney, people acting like problems that affect men don't matter and shouldn't get attention because other genders have it worse off (I seriously don't get why we can't work on everything at once)

Xi3s3r · Answer

it's all women: she has pain experience for wrongful put a guy in friendzone, guy will not longer with her.

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