her mother has recently found a new lover, and has decided to get married and move... meaning my 19 year old girlfriend will be on her own and will not be able to support herself alone, albeit working a full time job. Her original plan was to apply for school and use student housing as a place to live while she gets a degree through a technical school. Her mother refuses to sign her government assistance forms, and she cannot sign it herself as her mother claims her as a dependent. Mind you this is the same mother who took out a credit card in my girlfriends name and ruined my girlfriends credit.
at this rate she has nowhere to go. Her plan is to live in her aging car with many issues. We have not been able to find a cheap place for her to stay, and know nobody looking for a roommate.
We haven't been getting along that great the past few months which adds to the stress, though I'm still trying to make sure she has/finds a safe, stable home- something she's been lacking her entire life.
Am I in the wrong for contemplating leaving this relationship? We had a severely rough patch the first time she went through homelessness which has left a bitter taste in my mouth. I'm too young to change my entire lifestyle to support someone, nor is it within my means to have her stay with me. The last thing someone wants to see is someone they love (d) on the streets though.
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