I lose my appetite on dates?

[Anonymous]

This is going to sound SO weird but before a date, I really lose my appetite. To the point where if I see food it makes me want to vomit. It also makes me look very strange, and it gets awkward if he is eating and I am not. Sometimes the day before a date and I won't eat for a whole day because I get anxious. What can I do to make myself eat on dates? I really don't want to be that girl who doesn't eat on the first date lol.

Thanks!!

[mohak97]

Hey there.. it used to happen the same w me earlier but i realised that the main reason was my conscience about potraying yourself as a good person.. but srsly if you're on a date then you should behave as you are and not the person you are expected to be like.. always remeber this and you'll never ever feel shy again.. cheers and best of luck for your next date

[Savager]

Please, for god's sake, nobody cares if you stuff that burrito in. It only comes off as you being a genuine person than a delicate darling. It also helps us to eat normally too. Girls pecking at their food, trying to appear cultured is such a turn off.

[Quintessence]

I'm exactly the same. Social anxiety, FTW. Honestly, the best way to get around this is to just not have the first or second (or however many dates it takes to get you comfortable around the person) centered around food. Go to a movie, a park, a rec room, etc.