Do you find yourself more drawn to brains or looks?

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winterfox10 · Accepted Answer

Looks, because a girl doesn’t need to be terribly smart to be a good partner. She does need a witty sense of humor however.

CT_CD · Accepted Answer

Looks

Richareens · Accepted Answer

Brains.

MaiNameIsSunshine · Accepted Answer

Both.

thatonesocialanxiety · Answer

Specifically speaking to those who see, we see the outside first before the inside. People can't just say "I go for brains only". I find that utter b. s. here's the reason why, if someone looked like cousin IT, would you date it? Even if you can have a meaningful conversation, ask yourself, do you see yourself with that person? As humans we are attracted to sight and smell before looking into the mind. They may look great, sound great but that hygiene though. There's a positive and negative to everything. Me, I am attracted to looks first and then mind second. Because if they are book smart then that's all fine and dandy but if they do not know how to take care of themselves then that's an issue.

Henryisadog · Answer

It depends. Looks mean nothing to me if I can't have a meaningful conversation with someone. Plus a great personality makes your physical appearance a lot more attractive. But if someone started flirting with me and I didn't find them attractive then I probably wouldn't give them much of a chance. So brains matter more to me but I couldn't be in a relationship where physical attraction wasn't there lol but that doesn't mean they need to be a model 😂😂

btbc92 · Answer

I care about how a person thinks besides his character and heart. The looks come's last on the list. Other than that, I don't care how he looks. If he isn't good he isn't being with me. I'm not drawn to a person's look. I have to know what's in his heart.

ZjJaja · Answer

the truth is i'm not going to choose anyone...

unless...

i follow along the pathway blindly to find her

when i open my eyes...

looks like home in a human being

she's the reason i hold out on anyone...

surviving my hard trial alone...

just following my blind trail all the way home

oddwaffle · Answer

Sorry. I don't like the soft tofu-like blob in between. I sometimes eat it in small amounts but definitely not my favorite food.

Wait you are talking about intelligence. You mean the stuff people can't see and have no way to confirm without a hefty degree of interaction. I know a short 30min interview is not enough to reveal a person intelligence.

Yeah looks. It's simple 10sec look test. Much better than a picture with "I am smart!" comment at the bottom.

Ivysaur85 · Answer

Honestly, it's looks INITIALLY. I think I'm not being superficial. I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to. However, I become far, far more interested when I find out she's intelligent and quick-witted. It's what I'm truly attracted to.

jess99898998 · Answer

Brains. I'd rather be with an average looking woman who had the intellegence to have a great relationship than a dum pretty woman that pissed me off everyday.

pernicious67 · Answer

Brains for sure. Someone who can challenge me and hold conversation is a lot More sexually attractive then just a hot blonde who has nothing going for her apart from looks

RachelleDraws · Answer

Personality. Looks is what makes me take notice, personality is what makes me fall in love.

Berserk117 · Answer

Brains, too many brainless Instagram bimbos who act like clones and have the same hair style with the two braids here in Los Angeles

bobnvagene62 · Answer

As long as you have crawled out the sewer or dropped out at 13, your good.

Jennifer398 · Answer

Brains they can think of new and novel ways to get off

RayaJ · Answer

Definitely brains. Thay can't be too hard on the eyes though.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see them as separable. Generally speaking the more intelligent a human is the more likely they have other strong traits such as beauty. Namely because good genes come as whole bunches so highly intelligent people also tend to look good.

HamAndCheese · Answer

Brains, if you mean personality. But if you mean smarts? I don't really care about smarts.

Prima_Dana · Answer

I like both. It's sexy when a guy shows that he's smarter than me.

Giedrė · Answer

Brains for sure. Even if a guy is not very attractive, I will be drawn to him if he had a smart mouth.

Anonymous · Answer

Brains are more important but I'd be lying if I said that looks don't matter. I have to be physically attracted to someone to date them.

Anonymous · Answer

First looks becuase I don't know their brain just by looking at them. But looks can only take you so far...

BaddieBunny12 · Answer

Both but I’m guilty for looks

LeglessPooch · Answer

Both but lean towards brains more than looks.

dude64bro · Answer

Wisdom is sexy. Though it is very rare

SoapyG · Answer

Brains with looks on the side but BRAINS!!!

BleepRawrsaurus_Rex · Answer

A combination of both

Izumiblu · Answer

combination of both.

KhalidAmerican · Answer

Both

SleeplessEleotriada · Answer

brains, then looks.

Solomonmundy · Answer

A mix of both

FUCBOI_ARDEE · Answer

Brains

Anonymous · Answer

Huge tits and asses

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