I went through that phase in a way. Most of my friends were (and still are) male but for a long time I hated the concept of dating. Was bitter and vitriolic whenever dating got brought up. I would talk about how it was for stupid people and made you weak but it turns out I was just so mad because I'm lesbian and didn't want to have to date and marry a man. Once I figured out I was gay it all made sense and now I have a girlfriend I really love and that whole mindset is gone now.
I tried to make friends with anyone if they gave me attention, I was really timid, most of the times they would laugh at me or say I am silly or ignore me or other things, so maybe they were thinking something (idk) of me, anyway I remember thinking for some time that boys are strange (not gross) like from another world...
I thought it was part of growing up for everyone. Apparently not. I though boys were gross when I was about 6-7 years old. They were idiots who couldn't play nicely like girls did and only did stupid and gross stuff.
Girl culture with all the rainbows, unicorns, and baby dolls, was at the least boring, and sometimes out right annoying to me. Also any "girl power" content, was such obvious propaganda, that even as a kid it annoyed me. I never found girls themselves to be repulsive. It was just their interests, that were repulsive.
In fourth grade, my class was playing tag, and this boy shoved me onto the black top and just stared like an idiot. He didn't do anything to help me! He didn't even apologize! He kept on annoying me by pulling my hair, spitting near my shoes, etc until he transferred in middle school. I thought he was gross. :| I still have that scar..
I never really thought boys were "gross". I didn't really participate in the whole cooties thing. But I definitely had times when I felt like boys were too wild, not "nice", or I couldn't really find common ground with them.
It really depended on who. The boys in my class were gross because that's how the other girls felt, and I naturally followed. The guys I hung out with alone were cool :)
Never understood how the idea of cooties spreads. I mean, where would a kid get information about cooties? We never had anything like that here, as far as I can remember.
I didn't ever think girls where gross. And kids just say that because they actually like each other. Like girls hit boys they like in a playful manor. And boys are mean with girls they like.
I've liked girls from a young age. The only difference is that there wasn't a sexual attraction to girls I liked back then. I just wanted to be around them all the time and be close to them.
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