Don't make me be a dick, please stop telling her she's fine because what you consider fine will make her wish she was dead at the beach. Long term happiness> short term self acceptance.
@TheShyPrep well, look at all the other guy's opinions. You're the one who is making her think she is something she is not. What you consider fine makes many, many girls and boys die of anemia and malnourishment. Long term happiness > a eating disorder
@TheShyPrep You would rather have an eating disorder than be fat? Obviously you've never had an eating disorder or met someone who does. It's horrible. I've struggled with bulimia my whole life and that's such a messed up thing to say. I hope your hot because your personality is horrid.
I can't believe you're serious. Are you serious? You really think ANYTHING is better than being chubby? What about being a cheater or vindictive or just a total bitch?
My body allows me to do anything I feel like doing, I have friends who are just a little fat and they can't even handle the same physical challenges. Also they don't as much confidence as me and 'shy' is in my handle.
The reason they don't have as much confidence as you is probably for this exact reason honestly. Your standards are unrealistic. Very much so. And I'm really just disgusted by the fact that you think having a little fat is so terrible.
@TheShyPrep it shows you might have strong deep rooted issues with self love, body views, and body acceptance. So deep that you don't even recognize it consciously. Please try to get professional help about it... Many therapist help with self image issues, and many men go after it. Good luck!!
Honestly... I don't even know what to say anymore. Girl, you're beautiful. I am SO glad you bested bulimia. You have my congratulations, honestly. I'm really proud of you. Fat is normal. It is healthy to have it in small amounts. I'm so glad you realize that.
@TheShyPrep Man, stop being so damn insensitive. This kind of mentality is what causes many girls/women to starve themselves to death. Do you know how many of them DIE because they'd rather be skinny so that an ass would love their booty? If she were your sister or mother, how would you respond?
@TheShyPrep Lol, what would you pick? a gorgeous goddess with an okay body? Or a girl with an amazing body, but a plain face? And I mean, not for a one night stand, for the rest of your life. Just so you know, a personality is ephemeral, a body is not. One day, when you are 60, you will wake up to a sagging ass and a pot belly, and then perhaps your views may change.
When I'm old I doubt I'll care about attractiveness, prolly only care about presentation. And just because I have high standards for what I consider attractive, doesn't mean I don't also care about personality. I came down hard because people were getting so pissy with me after I originally politely told her what I thought and shared tips that work for me.
@TheShyPrep Man, how idiotic do you have to be to misinterpret his comment that much? Average weight, meaning she is within the "norm," meaning what the majority of the population is at. Anorexic is not "average." Get it now?
@TheShyPrep Wow, die at the beach? why are so special that she has to please you for? Other men find this body type attractive. Clearly, you're more of a stick thin type of guy. She is not fat at all, the girl is underage, so she has not had time to develop yet. Get it? That's why her body is not to your perfect standards. Wow, now I know why so many women die from anorexia and bulimia, and for what, for people that aren't even worth it?
@TheShyPrep Wow, how ignorant and insensitive. By saying that you'd rather have an eating disorder, you are saying you'd rather die. I don't think any man is that special for a woman to give up her precious life in order to please him.
Huh? You are 14? Oh my. No way girl, if you are 14, gosh. My boobs were the size of walnuts at that age. Girl, you are not fat at all. You have no waist, what the heck? You are so little, young. You will grow up to become a gorgeous woman. Don't listen to any douchebag. by the way; I am actually 18, just wanted to be "anonymous," though the world now knows my true identity. Yay!
I'm not gonna be mean and tell you what I think of how you look, but perhaps you should lower your standards a bit. Because there a lot of men out there who are more accepting, and who are far hotter than you. Sooo.
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